hello im thinking that can any parents create differnce between their children by giving importance to one or two child and eldest one gets ignored just becoz he didnt say anything respect his father and always help his father when ever he is in trouble but still in end he got nothing his father dont listen or give imporatnce what his son wants he is living alone in other city nobody cares him if he got sick and son never told this his father or family …problem is my fiance is eldest among his brothers his younger brother got married in 2007 and his younger sister also … now i got engaged with him this year in march we both know each other and he like me and send his father as his mother died ..he lives alone in khi for job and want to get married soon but his father delaying marriage just by saying that he got loss in business we undersatnd this ..his father and family are nice and nicely talk with me and my family they just said we will let you about marriage dont worry about this ALLAH will help when my father asked about marriage ok from then we didnt talk about this topic becoz he again having loss in his business …and he said my fiance to arrange money for wedding this is also ok my fiance never say anything to him whatever his father said he just get upset and said why this happen to him etc nobody cares for him etc and he just stop to talking with me just becoz of his father doing this to him…
i dont know what advice should i give to my fiance ? as i also gets upset sometimes and get really worried about these things i know there is a certian time which ALLAH decide for us to get married but what to do if people around u doing this ?
plz pray for me im very tensed these days