does marriage solve all?

Lifestyle Relationships
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my parents seem to think that marriage solves all it brings stability and meaning to life.

atm im a single university student living away from home, it brings its issues, and studying amongst boys brings seperate issues.

my parents are now desperate to get me married off thinking it will solve all…

i dont think so.

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Re: does marriage solve all?

rly?

it might only create more problems if both of you are students ; )

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Various events and phases in our life bring meaning. Like other relationships in your life....marriage...and its pros and cons can develop your character...provides lessons to learn from, etc.

But, I don't see it as the be all/end all to life. I don't think it's the cure to to every problem. Life isn't meaningless for those who are single. It doesn't lose meaning for those that lose their spouse (divorce, death, etc). And for some people, an end to a marriage can bring greater peace and stability. Not everything is black or white.

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Re: does marriage solve all?

it does solve all the probs you are having before marriage. after marriage you will have a complete set of new issues, more difficult n not easy to solve issues… :halo:

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Re: does marriage solve all?

*Yeaaaa...no. *

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Yup!

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:k:

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OK. So you gave your opinion like the news to the world. No question or opnion asked in your post even though some assumed there was a question rather than your opnion.

So, what should be discussed?

I say I agree with you. :)

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Re: does marriage solve all?

Hey you will get laid. I say go for it.

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Re: does marriage solve all?

^ yup that's the only problem a marriage can solve economically :D

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You said it !! after marriage there are a lot of other factors & people to consider & its complicated…
:hinna: troubles never cease.

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Re: does marriage solve all?

Marriage can solve a lot problems for some people.

However like someone already said...it will also bring about new issues with it.

What kind of problems are you having that need marriage to solve them?

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Re: does marriage solve all?

Thanks for your replies everyone! some interesting points raised.

Alot of these days believe marriage=stability and stability=less problems in life in general, and generally more happiness.

My parents believe this too.

I have no problems that marriage would solve..i.e stress with work or problems with friends etc etc...however my parents think the sooner they get me married off the happier and more stable and focused id be in life...like a person to love..or whatever would complete me...i personally dont like the idea of that!

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Re: does marriage solve all?

marriage does not solve any problem. But in fact ADD ONS many more