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she looks 22 anyway
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well said!
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reminds of the latino eva in desperate housewife.
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if it’s that good then why listen to anyone else..
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Personally, I would hate to marry someone younger than me. I don't care who's married to who, simply because it makes no sense. You should be comfortable enough with him, that's all.
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How the hell did i miss the cleavage picture? Anybody got a link?
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CM, PCG has them in her private collection. I wonder if she'll share em with you.
Guyz hold on to your horses, marriage is the last thing on my mind. I've been thru one and the prospect wasnt really appealing.
Maybe in another life time ...but not in this one.
nywayz things have become complicated. Too complicated. :(
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^ * jumps to read her journal* - i love reading ur journal by the way. its like reading a romantic novel, i hope it has an happy ending!
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
no.
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i dont thing we(as a new generation) think its bad becuse we believe our self and our partner but still being desi our parents usually try to run our life and make all the decision from the day 1.... i am not saying whether we right or they are wrong but still i think there are few reasons why they think its not a good idea.
girls gets mature earlier than guys, thats why 17 yr old girl with 30 yr old man looks just fine.
being a mature girl/woman they look more older than guys if they both are same age then chances are they will look older than guys, unless they care about themselve all their life which mostly pakistani women dont do as they are always busy doin house chores and raisin their kids and alot of times working too.
IF a man is older than a woman that means she has to give him more respect and do what he tells her to do (as what mostly pakistani woman do) and man in our society always like to have a hold in the family and he is the one who makes the most important decision rather than woman taking control over the house and do what she thinks is the best. but if woman is older than a man... whats gonna happen.. if he is also a typical desi guy who likes his wife to stay under him then offcourse she might not like it... she is older.. she is more mature than a guy she atleast want equality and this is where the conflicts begin...
Even in Islam, God give man more power and strength than a woman.. why is that? becuase he has the responsibility to take care of the wife,
and in todays world we are competing against man in every field so that we can prove that womans can do everything that a man is doing. but in reality we can never go ahead of mans... womans are also human they also think. they might say that since i am older that means he has to do what i tell him to do as well.. and he might not like it...
but i think it all depends on the understanding they have in their relationship.. BUT do u think all love marriages are successfull??? NOOOOOOOOOOO... alot of time people change after some time.. in order to make the marriage sucessfull womans are suppose to make more sacrifices than mans... thats why in my opinion its better for a girl to marry someone who is older than him otherwise it would be tough... because mostly your own ego will come to play :)
what i said is based on what i have seen in real life.. it doesnt reflect the entire community so please dont get offended...
Personally. i would never marry someone who is younger than me... because the respect i can give my husband who is older than me, i can never give the same thing to the guy who is younger than me.. its not that i dont respect young people but in a relationship i wont be like the same.
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I havent written in the journal for a while, things have been happening too fast and too soon and its a whirlwind of emotions. But I do need to upload my thoughts or I'll go crazy.
suroor thanx, its not really that good.
PCG :p
pp, i dont get it so in order to get respect out of you for someone they have to be older ?
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read it again yar.. its not that i dont respect youngers.. i do… but if someone is older than its lil different.. i cant explain it… but it is different..
i have seen this in my family… if my uncle is like 5-7 years older than my aunt then she will let everythin on him to decide what he thinks its best for them.. if they both are same ages or even if my aunt is 1 or 2 years younger than my uncle(like my folks) they both makes most of the decisions in the family and alot of times my uncles gave up because their women thinks they can make better decisions…
its not just decisions.. if u are older u do want respect in every way.. u want everyone to seek your permission before doing anything…
take my own example…even my older brother(6 yrs older than me).. whenever we get mad, he expects me to keep quite because i am his choti sister… but when my another brother(who is only 3 yrs older than me) fights with me he never said u gotta give up because u are younger than me.. we always settled down on somethin.. either i win or he win… i always tell my older brother ke choti hona doesnt mean u can do watever u want but he is like that…
so u can imagine what if wife is older… everyone agrees ke mian and bivi is like tires of a car if one falls then the whole car will get down.. so if she is older then dont u think she will want the same thing as what older guys would want or get from their younger wifes.??? i dont think.. its just my own opinion that they will.. but i may be wrong 
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Tires is a good example. It helps to have both tires of the same size. Tractors make for uncomfortable ride. Age has nothing to do with the size of tire, though. Its the mental attitude. So pp007 baji, don’t consider yourself as the front tire of the tractor.
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faisal bhia i can never bee… infact i dont ever want to be… that why i said i cant possibly marry or get in love with someone who is younger than me cuz then i want myself to be as the the front tire… i am not sure but thats how i think i would be 
btw did u ever ride in a tractor… i thought it would be awesome…