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I aint married but I know I will not mind at all.
But why would anyone mind it? 
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And BTW, we don’t normally see such questions from females. What’s the story Barbie? 
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Post count, forum traffic 
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No, there are better ways to do that. Maybe she is sending a signal to someone, who is he 
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BBQ might want to know the experiences of people out there in order to form her expectations.
BBQ, better to keep the expectations low. Anything extra will always be welcome (be it a massage or....ahem) ;)
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... your spouse asks for a massage? (no dirty meanings, pleej!)
I'd be more interested to hear from desi mard hazraat who might take it as an insult if their wife asks them to dabao their paon! aag laga k runs
Paon dabaing is not massage. It is much more involving , for details visit massage.com.
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before I can answer, I want to know what this has to do with ego BBQ?
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yeh agree with Bigboy.. massaging or even feet dubaing has nothing to do with ego, if u are happily married and love ur spouse. With us my husband is not romantic, expressive or lovey dovey but still he gives me feet and back massage when Im tired and so as I do.
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It becomes an ego issue when someone other than the couple finds it out…
a Man’s reputation is totally ruined :no:..he becomes the laughing stock of everybody…so its a very big ego issue…
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app loog buhat hi shareer hain.
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You are so right. :k:
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Massage is a form of khidmat. Wives are supposed to do husbands' khidmat but its a big no no for husbands in our desi society. This makes it an ego issue for husbands. Majority of "shareef" desi husbands might do their wives khidmat but do not openly admit this :D
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these are very private affair of desi couple.
paon dabaing is big no no for desi husband.
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these are very private affair of desi couple. paon dabaing is big no no for desi husband.
yeah.. but BBQ wanted to know about the secrets of desi couples ;) Very few desi husbands have admitted doing their wives khidmat in this thread :p
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Why are you people so interested in this massage thing??? Even unmarried ones ;)
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yeah.. but BBQ wanted to know about the secrets of desi couples ;) Very few desi husbands have admitted doing their wives khidmat in this thread :p
lol. yup, no one want to reveal this secret, because husband and wife are like garment.
garment give us style (beauty) and protect (privacy).
its mean, husband and wife should keep secret and beautify for each other in order to get attraction.
oh man, i have loads of stuff on this topic....
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lol. yup, no one want to reveal this secret, because husband and wife are like garment. garment give us style (beauty) and protect (privacy).
its mean, husband and wife should keep secret and beautify for each other in order to get attraction.
oh man, i have loads of stuff on this topic....
Then husbands should not tell other people how much their wives do their KHIDMAT and paoon dabaing :p
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Then husbands should not tell other people how much their wives do their KHIDMAT and paoon dabaing :p
yes, that is what majority of deis husband do. they never let other people know in public and keep pao dabaing and etc..
few desi husband forgot the privacy rule and spoke out here.
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Thread reminds me of a scene from Pulp Fiction
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^ Curse you stranger, seriously, I came in here to quote Jules, Imma do that anyway.
To quote Hazrat Jules Winnfield Rehmatullah here, "Don't be telling me about foot massages, I'm the foot ****in' master. I got my technique down and everything, I don't be tickling or nothing". So yeah, I love giving foot massages.