Females? and also does allow females to be friend of male?
I think many of us heard/read that “every Muslim is a brother of another Muslim”. So what is significance is this sentence? I think one reason is that if one Muslim think another Muslim as brother than he also think his sister as ‘his sister’, which means more respect to women. ‘Respect’ in sense to ‘lowering gaze’ and 'thinking positive, which create a line between ‘You’ and ‘her’, and that line keep you inside boundry of the religion and you might feel a fear inside of you, the ‘fear’ of your Lord, as mentioned in Holy Book “Qur’an” and narrated by our Prophet Muhammad in various hadiths.
But the all above just go away just like that when we are in ‘friendship’.
I think there is no concept of ‘friendship’ in ‘Islam’ regardless to gender except the incident of Hazrat Ibrahim a.s. The word which is used is ‘Companion’. If we study the life of any ‘Companion’ from the time of Prophet than we’ll read that they (in short words) spend time with their family, work and in a gathering ‘Majlis’. Such gathering were about the remembrance of Almighty Allah.
I have heard tht in Islam it is advised tht when u peak to other gender, lower ur gaze, don't speak so harshly tht other person consider it rude n don't speak so sweetly tht other person misunderstands it
I have heard tht in Islam it is advised tht when u peak to other gender, lower ur gaze, don't speak so harshly tht other person consider it rude n don't speak so sweetly tht other person misunderstands it
yes, for men to keep their gaze down while talking to females. and women are supposed to keep their voice down so she could NOT be heard outside the house and also not to walk in such a way that is considered stomping or coquetry.
But look what is going on. We call this relation as friendship (a worldly given name). There is no such word in Islam which interperet 'relation' of a boy and girl as 'friendship'.
I have heard tht in Islam it is advised tht when u peak to other gender, lower ur gaze, don't speak so harshly tht other person consider it rude n don't speak so sweetly tht other person misunderstands it
when women deal/speak with opposite gender, they supposed to avoid sweet tone. jazakAllah khair
in various hadiths.
feelings