most all men have a high sex drive? so does that mean the women that are more expressive in their enjoyment of such things are slutty and being desperate?
is that why allah has given men the option of 4 spouses and women are not? women are just naturally not so sexual?
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who said so 
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I dont think libido is dependent upon gender, society has just made it that way.
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Desi culture wants our women to be sharmeeli and nazuk and chup chaap. Enjoying sex doesnt really fit with that image...so its not exactly typical for a woman to express that part of her.
I actually think men and women enjoy intimacy equally.
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How do we know what happens inside the bedrooms, how husbands & wives behave there and express their feelings to each other? I reckon some men & women are more expressive than other men & women (Yeah, I know! What a discovery!), and unfortunately, we won't know unless we start conducting nightly raids into bedrooms all across the desi-world.
OR, are we talking about putting your sexual-ness on display out in the open in front of everyone? How many men have we seen do that? If anything, its the women who actually make effort to appear more sexy & attractive to everyone, and hence at least indirectly show their level of sexual-ness.
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100% false. No way does your libido depend on your gender maybe genes but def not gender
Its how the society ( ahem !! men basically ) has made it out to be.
No one actually puts up a display of how sexual they are in public barring a few men ( a lot actually ). So these are things that you can only come to know well should you have direct access to everyone's bedrooms.
People assume that girls who dress sexy are tigresses in bed hahahaha.... but i think its mostly the quiet ones who are a storm in a tea cup !!!!
But yes all men have a strong libido , coz they are never expected to suppress it and are in fact applauded for it.
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Whether or not libido is gender based? Now that is a question I think only Ron Jeremy can answer with sufficient info and experience.
Personally, I think that is not the case. It varies from person to person.
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nopes
but overall men have a higher libido.. blame the testosteron.
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How do we know what happens inside the bedrooms, how husbands & wives behave there and express their feelings to each other?
Ever had a chance to sit with some gown up desi men and women ? Most of the time they talk about birds and bees and religion.
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I don't think you can find your answers here, ppl who do it, won't talk about it.
Try yahooanswers.
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i think it depends on person to person.
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depends on your age as well I suppose....
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the general thought is that women don't find porn or erotic things pleasing or we see them as offensive.
why do we have to seem like we are repulsed by it when many of us are not at all repulsed by it and we're all full fledged woman. I think i'm normal
the woman that are oversexed have higher levels of testosterone in them than other women?.
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the woman that are oversexed have higher levels of testosterone in them than other women?.
well, or it could be other way around women who got higher testosterone, can do it more.
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the general thought is that women don't find porn or erotic things pleasing or we see them as offensive. why do we have to seem like we are repulsed by it when many of us are not at all repulsed by it and we're all full fledged woman. I think i'm normal
the woman that are oversexed have higher levels of testosterone in them than other women?.
I find porn disturbing, does that make me abnormal? (I don't watch porn, there was this image that came on my computer, it was a virus actually, a malware or trojan).
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That’s the excuse I used in eighth grade 
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You just told us something about yourself, do you realize that? lol
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RIZLA86 SAW PORN IN 8TH GRADE? 
OMG OMG OMG OGM OMGOMGOMG the ohrorrror 
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Growing up in Saudi Arabia, no sex education etc, that’s how ALL kids learn.:halo:
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i thnk it depends on the relationship