Edit : answer obtained. Thanks.
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He likes her
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Sorry...she just informed me of something more...he wants to have coffee or something...'as friends'...is he giving her mixed signals?
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Well, it could be just to see how they both are with one another after so long, and if there's something still there. I doubt she would go if he asked her out as "more than friends" so this is the way to go yeah?
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True!...I think she still likes him..and he is very cautious so I guess I should advise her is that she should go if he she still likes him. Thanks!
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mixed signal nahi to aor kia hay phir ? :)
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So the guy is full of himself in real life; was dumped by this girl; the girl initiated the “contact”; now girl “thinks” he likes her! Hmmm
Sounds “paying it back” time. ![]()
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That thought occurred to me too but to be honest he's not the type...yes he's full of himself but he's also quite mature..and doesn't have the time to dabble in mindless games..
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^ but no one knows what is brewing in his head. At this point, the more important question is - "does she like him?". Your friend should answer this 1st. If she doesn't - then keep friendship to Facebook only.
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Your friend thought that he didn't have time for your her previously. Now the guy might be making up for his mistake so yes, he might be trying his best to sort things out. 2 years is a long time to know that he could not get along well with any other girl and it might be that he was too egoistic to come back. During this 2 year period, he might have noticed that your friend was the right one for him but could not come back (ego problem). Once your friend added him on fb, he found it a good chance and now he is not being egoistic (since your friend took the first step) and thats why he is the one always initiating the chats etc. Ask your friend to be careful. The guy might be up for some revenger (who knows?). So its better not to jump into the relationship soon and better to test the waters first. But there is no harm in proceeding with the guy carefully as he is giving positive signals.
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he does not like her, she should stay away from him and so should you
such guys are termed as 'alpha male'. i dont know if you know one of the most outstanding and least understood characteristic of such guys is they do it for thrill and ride. they pursue a girl just to test themselves and have some thrill along the way. Once they achieve their goal, the end. this is generally the case with all men: they will run after women only untill they get them, and then life becomes boring. so it is mere thrill and challenge most of us men seek. (obviously various combinations of intensites and capacities exist)
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he does not like her, she should stay away from him and so should you
such guys are termed as 'alpha male'. i dont know if you know one of the most outstanding and least understood characteristic of such guys is they do it for thrill and ride. they pursue a girl just to test themselves and have some thrill along the way. Once they achieve their goal, the end. this is generally the case with all men: they will run after women only untill they get them, and then life becomes boring. so it is mere thrill and challenge most of us men seek. (obviously various combinations of intensites and capacities exist)
But guys do want to get married. Do all guys end up playing this thrill games? Many guys do pursue a girl so that they can marry her. Not many guys are in favour of arranged marriages these days.
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So haven't spoken for two years and now all of sudden he will like her?. Well i tell you, he is playing with her and for us guys..we feel good when we get attention from a girl. So it could be thrill ride for us. Tell your friend to be careful and tell her parents to find her someone nice to get married. OR if he is serious than he should consult with his parents to send rishta at her home. That's it.
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like omg.
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lol
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He likes her
No she likes him.
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But guys do want to get married. Do all guys end up playing this thrill games? Many guys do pursue a girl so that they can marry her. Not many guys are in favour of arranged marriages these days.
Getting a wife or girlfriend same thrill/challenge explanation applies. 99% of the guys have it in them believe it or not; at different levels of course. And this is not true that not many guys are in favour or arrange marriages. The people I have around me are all pro-arrange marriages same way guys around you may be otherwise. So, we shouldn’t generalize. But the fact of the matter is in non-arrange marriages (esp love marriages) this trill factor so to speak is much higher.
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Hmmm an alpha male?..yeah that could definetly be him. I guess then she needs to work out how she feels and if she doesn't like like him then she should back of now. I guess I can see why he may be in it just for the pursuit...she is just as gorgeous as he is good-looking so maybe for him it's kind of a prize ...considering she ended it. But she has told me that she is being a bit aloof during their communications and although shes on fb a lot even if she sees him online she will purposely stay offline and she makes it a point not to talk to him more than once a week...I guess to keep his ego to a manageable size lol. And when she DOES appear online he instantly pounces.
Basically I don't want my friend to get hurt. Last time when she ended it she got extremely depressed because she loved him and he claimed to love her yet didn't always treat her nicely.
Well you understood my post correctly thats good. Other than that I wont make any further comments on what she should or should not do. Good luck.
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