Okay, I put this in the other thread, but it's valid here too.....
Amy, you have truly shot yourself in the foot this time. Before I start, let us establish the following.
1.) The Quran is the word of Allah
2.) The Hadith are the words of the Prophet (SAWS)
You say that we should only follow the Quran, only follow the explicit word of Allah.
Now read the following from the Quran.
"So take whatever the Messenger gives you and keep away from what he forbids you." (Surah Al-Hashr 59:7)
Here it is explained to us that the commandment of the Prophet is equal to a commandment from Allah. This is not the only place this is written, Allah has commanded us in many places in the Quraan to obey the Messenger. A few of these are:
"O you who believe! Obey Allah and obey the Messenger and those charged with authority among you; and if you differ in anything among yourselves, then refer it to Allah and the Messenger if you do believe in Allah and the Last Day. That is best and most suitable for final determination." 4:59
Obey Allah and the Messenger; but if they turn back, then surely Allah does not love the unbelievers. 3:32
And obey Allah and the Messenger; that ye may obtain mercy. 3:132
Those are limits set by Allah: those who obey Allah and His Messenger will be admitted to Gardens with rivers flowing beneath, to abide therein (for ever) and that will be the supreme achievement. But those who disobey Allah and His Messenger and transgress His limits will be admitted to a Fire, to abide therein: And they shall have a humiliating punishment. 4:13-14
And whoever obeys Allah and the Messenger, these are with those upon whom Allah has bestowed favors from among the prophets and the truthful and the martyrs and the good, and a goodly company are they! 4:69
"The answer of the believers, when summoned to Allah and His Messenger in order that he may judge between them, is no other than this: they say, 'We hear and we obey'. It is such as these who will attain success." (Surah Al-Nur 24:51)
"But no, by your Lord! (O Muhammad) They cannot be believers until they make you judge in all disputes between them, and find in their souls no resistance against your decisions, but accept them with the fullest submission." (Surah Al-Nisa' 4:65)
Obey Allah, and obey the Messenger, and beware (of evil): if you turn back, know that it is Our Messenger's duty to proclaim (the message) in the clearest manner. 5:92
They ask thee concerning (things taken as) spoils of war. Say: "(such) spoils are at the disposal of Allah and the Messenger: So fear Allah, and keep straight the relations between yourselves: Obey Allah and His Messenger, if you believe." 8:1
O ye who believe! Obey Allah and His Messenger, and turn not away from him when ye hear (him speak). 8:20
O you who believe! answer (the call of) Allah and His Messenger when he calls you to that which gives you life; and know that Allah intervenes between man and his heart, and that to Him you shall be gathered. 8:24
"So take whatever the Messenger gives you and keep away from what he forbids you." (Surah Al-Hashr 59:7)
"You have indeed in the Messenger of Allah a beautiful pattern (of conduct) for anyone whose hope is in Allah." (33:21)
"He who obeys the Messenger, obeys Allah." (4:80)
Thus we as Muslims as 2 sources for our commandments: The commands of Allah, as laid down in the Quran, and the commands of the Prophet (SAWS) as laid down in the Hadith.