Re: does age really matters
Age doesnt really factor into marriage, peoples mentalities do. My hubby and I are almost 8 years apart but in personality we are about 20 years apart because his thinking is really old and mine is much younger (I act like a kid and he acts like my granddad!). My sister in law and her hubby are 10 years apart but you cant tell that because they are so well bonded and enjoy all the same things etc...
Someone suggested that if there is too much gap then when they get really old they lose time together. Only Allah knows how long life is. My friend is a 34 year old widow and there was only a 3 year gap between them.
Dont look at a persons age, look at the person. And if you dont find any..look at Amir pindi!!
But in most cases you don't find mentality before marriage. Only you can find age.
What if the guy seems a gentle man and after marriage find out he is junk?