hi all ive bin lukin at this website 4 ages and some rally gud poster on here lol with rally intrestin topics
any way here da thing i bin married for 1 year from ma mum side of da family i have know da guy say ma entire life i am 18 and he is 22. and da age dident matter to me cz he is a rally nice guy and we both got on great before we were married we used to ring tex each other all da time. rsently a mate of mine has come out with all sorts like oh hes rally oldr than u, cudet u find some 1 your own age little thing like that and we av bin mates since i started college say 3 years this has rally gotten to me now this mate got married a few months after me to here first cousin
so ppl what should i do. i mean its non of her business but how can i tel her to back off in a nice way?
i didn't really understand your post- so you're married to some guy who's four years older than you.. and you're happily married? what's the problem then? if someone is bugging you AFTER your marriage about your taste in men then frankly, you should give her one tight slap. four years is nothing trust me. as long as you two are compatible, get along well and have a happy and successful marriage, what's there in age to worry about? tell her "look, i love my hubby and i am PROUD of my choice. 4 years or whatever, doesn't matter to me. we are happy and love each other so i really don't see what your problem is. now that you're married yourself, i suggest you concentrate more on your husband than mine."
i just hate when people find reasons to butt in when they really have no right to. did someone question HER taste in men when she was getting married? it seems to me like she's jealous or something.
Kick her ass , omg i wud nevr let nebody say a word abt my husband. i ws so feisty when rishtedaars wud say nefin abt him before marriage let alone after marriage bt they know nt to now.
i am 18 and he is 22. and da age dident matter to me cz he is a rally nice guy and we both got on great before we were married we used to ring tex each other all da time. rsently a mate of mine has come out with all sorts like oh hes rally oldr than u, cudet u find some 1 your own age little thing like that and we av bin mates since i started college say 3 years this has rally gotten to me now this
thanks
Your friend has typical grade 8-9 mentality. You need to realize that you are married women now. Stop listening to your silly friends till they grow up.
I screwed up once because once of my "friend" told me "she knows you want to get into her pants" And I messed up a nice relationship.
And I wont consider 4 years an "age difference". Few year from now neither would you.
awww.. see this is why you should always make decisions on your own.. for better or worse, atleast you'll know YOU did what you wanted to.. not because of what someone else told you.
I hate that too - when people make remarks about partners. I just put it down to jealousy and try to have limited conversations with them and stay away from them.
I know from my husbands social circle, there are a couple of girls who give me such evil looks (most prob cuz they thought they have a chance with him) so i jst ignore them. I know some people have commented on husbands weight gain after he got married and i just say "heyyyyy???"....to put them in place!
Just ignore your friend...enjoy life and btw, 4yrs is nothing as long you guys love each other...x
i think it’s out of jealousy as well…it’s basically because they want what you have (ie a happy marriage, a family, attractive spouse etc etc).
and btw next time someone comments about your husbands weight gain…tell em it’s because you feed him well and he enjoys your cooking …and they can take that statement in more ways then one if they life
thanks for the coco.. 