**is it true that he doesn’t know what to do with her is this correct saying ?
what i personally believe is Love can happen at the drop of a hat. It is in the air. It is if your ready for it when it comes. Is your heart ready and are you willing to accept change, **
In my opinion there is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. The former is what you described in your second paragraph. It's short-termed, and accompanied with lust, infatuation, butterflies in the stomach, temporary rosy blindness, being possessive, and lots of other bollywood stuff.
Whereas loving someone is more realistic and associated with taking responsibilty, acknowledging that your loved one has flaws and accepting those flaws, compromising and letting go.
If you claim to love someone and are ready to fight the world for them all the other poetic stuff, then imagine this situation that you are married to that person, living his/her lifestyle (let's assume you had to compromise), doing daily chores as his/her partner, realistic events. And see for yourself how appealing it sounds.
Yes absolutely right I agree with both the points being in love and loving someone is two different aspects
Well does it sounds filmy may BE than its filmy .
when you love someone you automatically mold yourself in to his/her likeness when you stay together that’s the true love can be tested . Its not compromise its actually making sure that you are willing to choose what he likes coz when you love someone truly his happiness matters most .
LOL@ Maybe I didn't put the question in a right form well my question is very simple I am not talking about strength here or how much you are in love I am asking if a woman is already well established than its difficult for any man to have control over her . and to keep her happy no matter whatever she does will be looked upon in another way . so for weak man to get married to a strong woman is difficult that's what I am trying to say