If your relative comes to your country on a fake spouse visa, and upon arrival comes to your place. You give shelter for few weeks arrange for work and ask him to leave abd arrange his accomdation after he has started to earn gud money. Bt warn him of his behavior.
He decides to leaves the city and nt have contact with you.
A year later he contacts you and asks advice about his new plan (you are lawyer) of marrying someone for papers without legally divorcing first spouse. You warn him as he is not intending to marrying that person as well as he already has a wife and a daughter beside first fake spouse.
U warn him and refuse to prepare any paperwork for him.
He goes to pak for a visit and wen you go to pak you find out he has told all relatives that you did not help him and in fact dont want him to settle and did everything that would disadvantage him.
You are shocked at his behavior and what hes spread about you. And hes still doing it.
In reality you warn ed him for wat hes doing and did wat you could. You did your best to help bt refused to break the law for him.
What would you do to such relative. Dob him or let him spread what hes doing.
If he is that kind of a person, then high chances are that people back home already know him as a jerk. Just mention the marriage issue with his wife or in-laws and the nature will take its course.
I havnt met the girl he's intended to marry. I have no idea how hes hiding his real identity as if girls family properly investigate they will know. Everyone in his village knows hes married.
Also he is close relative, he has suffered alot in his life. I always believed in letting him do something gud or achieve something.
Thats reasons I haven't dobbed him.
Hes not just said thinga to relatives bt also to friends.
Also he is close relative, he has suffered alot in his life. I always believed in letting him do something gud or achieve something.
Thats reasons I haven't dobbed him.
Hes not just said thinga to relatives bt also to friends.
You have sympathy for him because he is a close relative and has had a difficult life and tried to help him. He obviously doesn't respect you or appreciate the fact that you were trying to keep him out of trouble by not helping him break the law. Instead, he repays you by spreading lies about you. I think you should stop helping him (if you haven't already) and shouldn't help him in the future. Don't let the fact that he's had a difficult life guilt you into helping him. It isn't your fault he's had such a life and besides, having a difficult life doesn't entitle people to lifelong sympathy or give them the right to behave however they please without facing the consequences.