to be able to succeed in never ever becoming a source of “Hurting the feelings” of people whom you communicate with in anyway, specially the ones who are related to you. If so, please share ideas.
I came to know of few sahaba (r.a) who used to keep a (clean) stone in their mouth, so that they only speak when it is VERY necessary and they get enough time to select words (with wisdom) in order to not offend people and control their anger, after they feel themselves impatient when anyone’s words/acts displeases them severely.
Re: Do you wish...?
I think in todays society its not practical to keep a stone in ur mouth
but yes alhumdulilah i try my best not to hurt anyone through my words or actions. i try to be as polite as i can and i try my best not to say NO if someone asks for a favour.
but still m a human and prolly ive done it many times intentionally or unintentionally.
just on a side not : if u hurt someone its not Allah thats gona forgive u, cuz Allah will only forgive u for HUKOOK ALLAH (insha Allah) not for HUKOOK UL IBAAD. so whenever u make dua ask Allah " O ALLAH PLEASE FORGIVE ME AND ALSO MAKE EVERYONE FORGIVE ME WHO HAS SUFFERED CUZ OF ME"