cuz sometimes everyone says that what ever your doing is wrong. and apparently everyone gives you different opinions, and you dont know who to listen. in fact it is really hard for you to listen to anyone. but still everyone around you is judging you. they tell you that you are wrong, but they dont tell how you are wrong. so not only it lowers you down, but also you dont feel like doing what you doing.
did anyone ever face any such situation?
how would u deal with it?
Critics are everywhere Zobia, they are hard on you but they teach you one thing. That you have to believe in yourself and keeping all the bad views in mind you have to make a right decision.
Again believe in yourself and take critisim as a lesson to yourself.Don't get pressurize, don't get depressed just be confident and make right decisions.
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It depends upon the person who is passing those comments or giving a "suggestion". If the person had similiar experience and it panned out well for him OR he has relevant expertise then I would listen to him, otherwise it's just an opinion like hundreds others.
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I do care about their opinion of those who know more than I do , who are wiser than I am , who sincerely care about my well being, who are my real well wishers ,
Others I will listen to but would not argue or be disrespectful to them.
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no.
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Others should definately trust my opinions of them.
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I do care about their opinion of those who know more than I do , who are wiser than I am , who sincerely care about my well being, who are my real well wishers ,
Others I will listen to but would not argue or be disrespectful to them.
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Same here.
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I do if they matter to me. Otherwise I jut bear and let it go.
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take in all the good u could get from their criticisms aur baaki baat ko kachre me fenkdo
Critics are everywhere Zobia, they are hard on you but they teach you one thing. That you have to believe in yourself and keeping all the bad views in mind you have to make a right decision.
Again believe in yourself and take critisim as a lesson to yourself.Don't get pressurize, don't get depressed just be confident and make right decisions.
+1
We can all agree that it really gets to our heads sometimes and really become angry and sad. You won't expect to do something right 100% of the time.
Mostly I (try to) ignore it but when you know they're right, it sucks.
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I do not take lightly constructive criticism, and see it as a compliment. So long as what is being said about me has even a hint of truth in it, and allows me to reflect on my flaws, it is more than welcome.
When you get more than one opinion from different people, look for what is common in everything that is being said. There are always things or atleast one thing that might be common, and needs attention.
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i know myself more then anyone else so no i don trust what others say about me except my close family and my bestie.
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Stop hanging out with people of your own intellectual.
Be with the people who are simple or the ones who inspire you.
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It depends on who is saying it, why they are saying it and in which situation its being said in . If its sumeone im close tu and they know me well, dan yeah i du listen tu dem even if i dun agree with dem. Afterwards i tend tu reflect over wht they have said, but it dosent necessarily mean ke i act on wht they say. But if its cuming from sumeone which i dun know well and they dun know me well, dan i wouldent care much ...:D