do you tell your spouse everything that happens in your own family..

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Re: do you tell your spouse everything that happens in your own family..

Nadz chill out woman

A lot of people prefer their bhabhis not knowing until something has been confirmed. It’s a bit stupid if you see a rishta and it doesn’t proceed from there, no? My mamus did NOT tell their wives of my khalas rishtas either until they were finalised. It depends on your family. Sometimes people are scared from family members who are spiteful and would create unnecessary problems. She is you husband’s sister. He has lived with her for most of his life. You haven’t.
Maybe he didn’t think it was such a big deal?

@nadz123

big things, small things, anything?

i think ( not sure) that a rishta came for his sis in pak, and maybe he knows about it, i found out because his dad phoned to tell my aunt whose his dads sister, and he said that once my aunts back in pak, they will discus furhter, i only heard a glimpse, but im assuming now all those talks my husband was suddenly calling from work might be due to this, now if he knows about this, why hasnt he told me yet…im ready to rip into him again, its taking me time to calm down, i know im wrong too, i shouldnt expect this, but why am i feeling so crap that he couldnt tell me if he knows, is this normal, has anyhone else experienced this, or just stuff you dont tell each other that happens within your own families…