Okay so before I ask my initial question…I have to ask this first!
If your married or in a really strong relationship:
Gf’s/Bf’s/Hubbies/Wives- Do you still “check out” the other fishes in the sea, after you already have your own? This can include celebrities or normal people.
Let me clarify: check out meaning you notice if they’re hot!!
And we are talking a happy marriage/relationship, no thoughts of leaving your other half:smilestar:!
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chk them out in wat way?
praise their beauty or looking for a way to get close to them?
well if a real handsome person passes by me n i think hes hot then thats all i'll think. he's hot. i will still not want to replace anyone with my spouse.
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Not at all, when i am in relationship married or un married, i never look for someone else. its not possible for me.
if you see hot girl or a celeb, that just something you may like but not for relationship.
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I think she means :
Do you still find yourself attracted to people of the opposite sex even though you are married or in a relationship?
Who doesnt? Just because you're married doesnt mean Brad Pitt/George Clooney isnt cute anymore.
Let me clarify: check out meaning you notice if they're hot!!
appreciating beauty is human nature. it has nothing to do with married or not. it has nothing to do with even opposite sex. now i often find myself staring any hot girl crossing road or waiting for a bus lol.
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^ i was just gonna say that. being in a committed relationship or being married doesn't change human nature. if someone's hot, they're hot. but if after "checking them out" you want to talk to them or take it to the next level, then that's not good.
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but yes Allah has ordered us to keep our gaze on ground( the hadith is not only for men but womn too) to avoid any wrong ideas entering the head. As Shaitaan is always on hunt to mislead good ppl n break up even strongest man n wife relations.
but may be its irrelevant to ur question so lets think abt the last guy i saw......... hmm
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I think being attracted to them is natural but choosing to "check them out" or ankhein saikna or staring at them or acting on it is wrong. AND no i do not.