Do you share?

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Do you feel comfy in sharing your belongings with others?

How do you get your things back?

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Not now.

But may be when I grow up, I will be ok with others using my things.

Namely, my sisters.

They’re not allowed in my wardrobe EVER :mad:

And I know how to get things back, hun. I know!

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I don't mind sharing with people that share with me. But as many of you already know I DO NOT LIKE to share my food lol, I will do it if asked, but that doesn't mean I like it. Im greedy!

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y not!!!..............sharing has been a great help to learn how to deal with people,at different levels of mannerism and human behavior...

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I don't mind sharing, helping out...I hate saying "no"....But I expect things to be returned back the same way that I gave them...or else :ASA:

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Yes I do , with a hope that other person will use it with respect :p

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I share things with my sisters and some of my close friends too.:) And alhamdulillah they are responsible so I have no problems so far.

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i share everything i have except for my clothes i never let enyone touch them.....jus ask for it bak sayin u need it or sumink but they should give it bak without u askin enyway........n i always want my tings bak in the same conndition....:)

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“False happiness renders men stern and proud, and that happiness is never communicated. True happiness renders them kind and sensible, and that happiness is always shared.”... I believe In This

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umm i dont share much.

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I used to but it would take forever for ppl to give things back (if ever) so not really anymore :(

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i dont.

but i am flexible. if someone is in need i will give it to them. if they will lose it then i wont regret crying over it.

i am kinda laid-back.

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I feel comfortable depending upon who the person is. If they're reliable and can be trusted, then I'll share my belongings with them. It also depends upon what the belongings are..........if it's something that I consider very valuable.....I'd be more hesitant to share it.

How do you get your things back? Well....BEFORE...you lend your possessions to someone.....you can ask how long they will need it for. For example, a friend asks if she can borrow your laptop/ clothes/etc. Ask the person how long they will need it for. That way.... THEY will know that YOU are aware of the time frame and it won't seem awkward when you ask for your belongings back.

^Another thing you can do is.......that YOU can give the person a time limit for when you want your belongings returned. You can say...."Yes, you can borrow my laptop, but I really need it back by Friday of this week because I have a project to work on.". This way......the other person can't hold on to your belongings for a long time and you have greater control because you set a time limit.

^If you neither asked for a time frame NOR provided a time limit. Then you just ask for your things back as nicely as possible. Just say, "I hope that......(the belonging) worked out for you. And I was wondering if you're done using it because I really need it back. So could you get it back to me by tomorrow/the end of the week????"

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It depends.....!

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I feel comfortable depending upon who the person is. If they're reliable and can be trusted, then I'll share my belongings with them. It also depends upon what the belongings are..........if it's something that I consider very valuable.....I'd be more hesitant to share it.
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