Like do they have access to all your accounts, cellphone, blah blah? What you’ve bought.
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No.
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Yes. financially, i have all our account info simply because i handle all finances- whenever he wants it I give it to him
Cell phone- we know each others passwords, same for email etc
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I’m talking Amazon accounts or any account where they can your history.
You have to be a lot more responsible after marriage so what if they go through everything. You’re giving the person a chance to judge you.
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We don’t hide purchases/$$ stuff from each other.
Cell phones: He knows my password and my fingerprint can access his.
Amazon: He has an account and all our purchases go through that. I don’t even have my own Amazon account.
Bank account/credit card: We technically have separate accounts. But we don’t hide purchases from each other. He knows when I buy something and vice versa.
Not sure what you mean by having to be “more responsible” after marriage. My husband I have similar views when it comes to money and if I need to vent or share other sensitive/personal information, I actually talk to my friends…I don’t send it through e-mail or text. Thus, there really isn’t anything online or on my phone that I’d be afraid for my husband to see.
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Most people aren’t born married to their SO so, I was talking about life before everything became one account, one life, fused together in some welding accident. I don’t mean that there’s anything to hide but they’ll know that I bought $65 foundation and i’ll be judged for that or for buying really expensive face cream.
You kind of had a life before all becomes two bodies, one life.
I guess everything is new and one after marriage.
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Yes, it depends if you know your spouse before you tie the knot. Like in cousin marriages, family marriages or love marriages a lot of things are known and shared. So, both of them know few things, if not everything, about each other. But this is a gamble. When you start living together, only then you come to know the realities. If my wife likes foundation, she should buy it. I may not judge her on that. But I am lucky here. She doesn’t buy a lot of stuff and although she was earning by herself earlier, she always used to share/ask what is she going to buy (referring to house old items though I am not at all interested in them). Now, whatever she buys, she tells me and vice versa. Sometimes, we do tell each other that the stuff bought was expensive and could have easily been avoided. I think its Ok. So, no complains Alhamdulillah.
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No way !
I don’t buy the theory that after marriage everything about past, present and future must be disclosed by husband/wife to one another. For me, exceptions to this rule would be suspicion of extramarital affair, substance abuse(drugs), irresponsible financial conduct(debts, poor credit rating, etc.) or health issues. But then too I would demand/allow a one-time access to pertinent account.
Re: Do you share everything with your SO?
Nope. We’re all products of the age of technology where having digital privacy is important so it hasn’t occured to us to share passwords or anything. Our finances are also quite separated so he doesn’t really get involved with what I buy. He does think some of my makeup and clothes are expensive but then all I have to do is point at his collection of watches so we’re even.
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Whoever is the man of the house gets to decide…
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Mostly yes but in some cases No. We decided to keep our finances like bank accounts / credit cards separate as we had them before marriage, although she can log in to my chase and I can log in to her BOA. We know each others phone passwords and some email accounts but she has an email acocunt that I dont know password and vice versa.
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We shared nothing. He had everything. I was not allowed to have my own finances. He controlled the bank account, etc. It was not sharing, it was his demand to have control over everything. I couldn’t even go to the library without him. It depends on the kind of husband you have and on the family in law.
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^That’s awful 