It is life , you get cheated , threatened, lied to , back stabbed , manipulated many a times in life.
In many situations you are made to do things you will not do willingly. How do you control yourself in those situations ? Do you lose control of yourself and create a scene ?
When I was immature I used to create a scene but as I am getting older I am controlling my self :(
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^In my case yeh ulat hy pehly main ny self control ki inteha ki or shaid ab bhi kerti hon kabhi kabhar,magar now (4most of the time)I tend to creat a scene:wink: Jab log kerty hain tu ham kion khud ko prha likha(woh waisy bhi main nahi:snooty:) or hophisticated zahir kerny ki koshishon main mery jain:hoonh:
Bilkul sahi jo parh likh ga-a hain unhoon nay konsay teer mar lee-a hain ? hain na ?
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Yes. I am a drama queen and love it.
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yes i think i have calmed down alot, and i think alot of that is to do with evaluating myself and how people see me.
at first i didnt care what others thought about me and was very loud and opinionated,
but one thing i still cant stand to this day is rude people. if any one is rude to me or my family i just give it to them in there face.
but you do have to take alot to be a strong person, and criticism is a good thing.
Bilkul sahi jo parh likh ga-a hain unhoon nay konsay teer mar lee-a hain ? hain na ?
Khyr parhi likhion ka tu buhat bura hal hai in many cases:D
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yes i think i have calmed down alot, and i think alot of that is to do with evaluating myself and how people see me. at first i didnt care what others thought about me and was very loud and opinionated, ** **but one thing i still cant stand to this day is rude people. if any one is rude to me or my family i just give it to them in there face. but you do have to take alot to be a strong person, and criticism is a good thing.
i still have these problems
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too much self-control can become fakeness.
the ppl causing u to loseself-contorl are obviously not considerate or have any themselves so its better to tell thm
chalo tum se yeh baat mein bhi seekh jaoon gi hoon to mein paindoo hi ab control bhi loose ker looon gi ![]()
Dykhna bari shant or sukhi rahu gi ![]()
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It depends on the situation usually I do have a high level of self control. If someone hurts me I would stop talking to them. I would delete them from my life :D
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^ same with me once some one has hurt me i dont want to know them no more,
i forgive but dont forget, and i know thats a bad thing but im sooo stuborn, bad habbit of mine.
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Oh boy , do you have contacts with some assassin group to delete people from your life or you do it yourself ?
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I have self control for the most part. After so much of "keeping it bottled up", sometimes I let it all out, depending on how bad it is.
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Well if I lose it , which I don’t too often , then everything is lost for sure .
Dykhna bari shant or sukhi rahu gi :D
:Dzaroor
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i don't create scenes, neither do my bro n sis ------- that's what you have mothers for! god they sometimes never let go and brining stuff up over and over again just make things worse and won't let other ppl forget
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scene kia kerna hay
bus rona shuroo ker daytay hain or kia Bomb blast to kernay say rahay !