Re: do you confide in your MIL?
Hypothetical or take a few minutes and think about it first. Meaning take a step back and think about your actions and the other party’s.
If you must confide, do it in someone who will not just side with you…and never confide in MIL or your own mother…always in someone who will not hesitate to set you straight if you’re wrong.
If I have issues, I don’t tell my mom, sisters or anyone. I will blog to let it out and get perspective from friends or I will take time to think about things. Once you have time to think about it, your initial anger begins to subside and you are able to see the bigger picture.