Do you believe....or does this work?? Plz help....Females only :)

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In the best time to conceive?

Does it really work if you try to conceive before your ovolution?

and i see a lot of online totkeys for conceiving a baby boy or a baby girl…or position to conceive succesful…? Do these things really work?
Are normal positions not enough anymore?

Me and my husband want to have a baby soon inshallah…but while i was searching on the internet i got scared by all the hypes, the do’s and the dont’s …

Does someone of you have experience with these kinds of things???

Hope you guppans can help me :confused:

(I am sorry if there was already a topic like this)

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Have you started trying yet? If not I'd say just have fun and do it every other day or so on and around the days you'll be ovulating.
It really isn't rocket science ... just have fun with it. There are things that will increase your chances of conceiving, read up on it.
Most importantly though- Don't stress! Don't make it into a chore!

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^^
nooo we didn't start trying yet.... i was using birthcontrol tabs so have to wait till the "effect" works out

Thanks for your advice WendyDarling :)

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I am not sure how positioning myself in certain way would eject a Y chromosome out of me instead of X. Male organ is not a multi chamber condiment squeeze bottle that if you press the left side, mustard would come out and right side would give you ketchup.

Common sense people, common sense.

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I was not talkin about positions for the gender of the baby ;)
I was talkin about positions that will help or give more change to conceive

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:hmmm: ok.

I believe that if law of gravity also works inside the womb, the way it works outside, a missionary position would be the ideal one.

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:smack:

Please enjoy your life. Have good expectations. Unless you have an underlying medical issue, getting pregnant isn’t rocket science. Think of all India’s population and you’ll know I’m not lying.

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It’s funny how OP clearly wrote “Females only” in the title and yet 3 out of 6 of those who replied are men. :smack:

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Writing “females only” will always attract the male species :hehe:

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It takes a man (usually) to impregnate a woman. SO it's unfair to ask females only.

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:rotfl: @ this whole thread

TLK Bhaiya…“condiment bottle”… :omg:

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Honestly there is some science behind conceiving. For the first year, try any position. Human body is made to conceive if you are hanging upside down.

Most OBs, after a year of trying to conceive naturally, give suggestions for positions along with tests and diet that are optimal for conception.

  1. missionary position with pillow underneath to elevate the uterus a bit. Staying in that position for 10 minutes. (just rotate and put your legs on the wall).
  2. finding exactly when you ovulate in the month is key
  3. optimal diet for best sperm count for men
  4. If you are looking for natural gender selection - read up on the shettles method.
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knowing when you ovulate is pretty key to having a baby.
that starts with tracking your period- your start date (first day of full flow), and your end date. you can sign up to a website like MyMonthlyCycles - Ovulation Calendar, Period Calendar, Fertility Cycles

they’ll tell you how long your cycles are and when you are likely to be conceiving, and you can even set up email reminders for when you should have sex in case you get busy and forget your ovulation date.

and also, obviously have sex. every other day at least for the week you ovulate.

don’t forget to start taking your prenatal vitamins and folic acid right away though! your body needs folic acid in the first three months after conception and it takes a while for it to build up to the right level in your system, so the sooner you start, the better it is. plus, pregnancy takes a toll on you so the prenatal vitamins will keep you healthy so you can have a healthy baby iA.

re: the pill
you only need to wait one cycle before you can start trying. so long as your periods are regular once you are off the pill, you’re good to go!

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Apart from all jokes and fun, this topic is important to talk about.

Conception could be or could not be a rocket science really. Most importantly since its not in your hands really. If fate has it, you dont even have to move a finger (metaphorically ofcourse :rolleyes: ) and you get pregnant. Or you just try and try and hang on, KNOWING one sweet day it will happen.

The KEY basically is NEVER giving up in frustration or stress. Thats why most of the posters advised you not to takie any stress over it anyway.

nggal’s post is very very valuable, she just summed it up all for you. But tell you what, people get pregnant even without following any of it, so you know this is basically the fate playing their role and beating ours, whatever it be.

I dont believe any position can really work more than the typical (missionary) one itself. But well thats what every one does already.

Two things that worked for me, anyway, were: Consulting a GOOD fertility specialist, since sometimes its just an excuse, a dose of two or three days even, that works. Second, I logged on to this lucky charm of mine Welcome to JustMommies : pregnancy and parenting on JustMommies. I dont know how but this site worked for me. I got to know SO MUCH I didnt know about conception, The ovulation period and other info that actually HELPS in conception covering almost all aspects you wouldnt know about, already.

On the top of every thing is your pure intent and DUA. There are a few duas of prophets mentioned in Quran, reciting which invokes Allah’s mercy and well, even if you DONT do any thing, just have your hope intact that Allah is Merciful and WILL bless you soon, so will HE.

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Sta's point about placing a pillow underneath was also mentioned by njgal. He may have read it in a religion book....but if it's something that doctors suggest as well, then there's some validity to it. Interesting.

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placing a pillow under back is a VERY COMMON suggestion given by old wives/doctors alike. Coming it from STA (him being a male and single too) sounds a little odd, if not funny.

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soo what if u get ur monthly flow comes 2 times a month? Does the ovulation calc. Really works?? ( in case someone has these probs?)

thanks SGC!! I really appreciates… The reason why i opened this topic was to get some info for myself and mayb someone else can use the info aswell…we can make a joke of this all…but once ur at a stage like this…thinga get serious to one other…

Thanks mirage!!! Am gonn take a look at the website!!!

Anddd…lol i had aome serious laughin attacks for some reactions :confused: astaghfaaar xD

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you need to get it checked and fixed.

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like mirage said, go see your doctor ASAP and get it checked out.

also, you're welcome :)

the ovulation calculator isn't an exact science because not everyone ovulates on day 14 of their cycle (day 1 being the start of your period) but it'll give you a time frame to work within. typically, the longer your cycle, the later you ovulate. when i came off the pill, i had 38 day cycles and would ovulate around day 17. another way of figuring out your ovulation is to look at your discharge. you can also buy an ovulation predictor kit. i used one to figure out my ovulation the month i conceived and plan on doing so again when we're ready for #2 iA.

there's lots of help out there, but first, go get a check up and make sure both of you are doing ok, get your periods sorted so you get them once a month, and then worry about the rest.

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As in for ireegular dates you need to go to a gyneacologist she can help you determine nd fix your ovulation date also she will get your hormones checked

What i eas adviced by a doc was just a few simple things which really worked for me
1. Start trying from the 10th day of your periods to the 20th day, evry other day, not everyday because you need "effective sperms" as doc says
2. Take folic acid
3. Donot stress
4. None of the positions matters, it only depends when Allah Swt has to bless you so just try any comfortable one and pray to Allah