Previously I didn’t use to think a lot about such incidents, but few years ago I read this report in a news paper that a research team came to this conclusion after a lot of surveys and interviews, that the percentage of “tit for tat” was stunningly high when the reality was revealed to them, one way or the other, regarding extra marital affairs. They met people of developing countries working in foreign countries and also interviewed their wives back home, whom they visited once in a year or so…during vacations…
Note: A lot of things in the stories might be senseless and illogical. But considering the above report, they might make 0.0000000001 % sense. Please don’t kill me if you don’t agree to it. The source of info shall better remain unknown…there might be mistakes in providing the info,…
**Incident # 1 : **
A man told that he went for some business for a long time to a place where “Zina”(Adultery) is easily available and accessible. When the woman entered the room, the natural alarm that Allah (swt) has fitted inside him started ringing very hard, like that of a fire brigade warning him to remain away (from the fire of hell). He himself doesn’t know what jolted the “zameer”(conscience) inside of him. Either it was the fear of Allah watching him, or it was the tears of a “majboor” (helpless) shivering girl, who was forced to adopt this profession probably for the first time in her life, as evident from her body language. Or it was the thought that the harsh realities of life can also put his own wife, sister, mother or daughter in the hands of an animal. He payed her money and respectfully requested her to leave the room.
When he returned home, he told his wife, " You have been living alone while I was away. Did anyone come ?" She replied, " On three occasions I heard the door bell. BUT I couldn’t see anyone when I looked outside." He was stunned to know that the days and timings of those 3 door bells were shockingly close to the timings of the 3 occasions when he was standing in front of a stranger woman…
**Incident # 2 : **
A man shared his dream with a pious person (whom he believed to have related knowledge): "I am looking at a beautiful white pigeon siting on the wall of my neighbor and I am facing towards it, appreciating its beauty, while my back towards my house. But then suddenly I saw an ugly black crow on the wall of my other neighbor, who was facing towards my house.
The pious person replied, "If you want divine protection of your wife against the impure intentions of your african neighbor, then you must remove impure thoughts from your mind and stop looking at the wife of your other neighbor.
YES, it is debatable that no one is responsible for other’s actions, but at times the mistake is of one driver and the whole family becomes the victim and is forced to go through the accident (in this world). But in the hereafter, the SINNERS and the SINLESS are separated…No one knows how exactly nature works as nothing is certain, but a certain pattern we do observe in life. What goes around MOSTLY does come around. May Allah (swt) forgive us all and guide us towards the right path…
@ the replies.
The more they reply to it, the more they increase the curiosity of other fishes to click on the ‘bait’
