Oh I get it now..sorry didnt read your earlier posts..yes you r right..depends on the situation..but what if harjai left u for some other girl later realised u r the one then what would b the best solution? Now if that happens again and again we can say he is a flirt..or he is just taking u for granted..but what if he actually realizes his mistake sometime later? And what if your heart is still stuck at your first love its not ready to move on? If he is the only one who u want in your life?
Would u still not forgive him? Would it b that easy to move on?
Now im just talking hypothetically..no offence intended