Parveen Shakir said:
**Wo kahin bhi gaya lota tau mere paas aya
Bus yehi ik baat **hai **** achi mere harjai ki
Do you agree to forgive such harjai each and every time? Will you forgive someone for disloyalty? Is there any limit to Bardasht & Sacrifice in love?
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shaa'irii kii sunyaa alag hii huaa kartii hai jahaN shaa'ir/shaa'ira apne aapko mazloom tasavvur kartaa/kartii hai aur maHboob ke haathoN kiye gaye mazaalim aur jaur o jafaa ko baa'is-e-sad hazaar faKhr o iftiKhaar gardaante/gardaantii haiN. They celebrate their miseries! :) is nukta e nazar se to shaa'ira kaa mauqif qaabil-e-daad o taHseen hai magar fil-Haqeeqat aise mazaalim ko sahnaa ba-zaat-e-Khud ek zulm hai.
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So you mean forgiving 'Harjai' makes him more 'Harjai'. Jaise shair ne kaha tha:
Kar Kar ke minnaten teri aadaten bighad din
Humne apne hathon tumhe sangdil bana diya
But we all know 'Insaan khata ka putla hai' aur wo insaan jisse aap mehboob kehte / samjhate ho, kia aap ussay chance nahin do ge?
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I concur to whatever you are saying ...I think if you are in ISHQ with someone ..you just don't see what the other person is doing or did to you all you feel is love..LOVE actually never dies :D
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:k: This reminds me Ashfaq Ahmed who said ‘Mehboob woh hota hai jis ka Na theek bhi theek lage’. Further, we listen to this line ‘Love is Blind’ on regular basis.. but do ppl are able to forgive all the times. I mean to say, one can forgive a mistake one-two times, but whether a Habitual Harjai deserve this treatment or not?
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It depends on Harjai 
BTW only a person who have fallen in Ishaq can say this and this is beyond of ordinary persons :cobra:
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I assume it has nothing to do with "lotas" discussed in PA? :D
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I've seen examples of 'Herjai' bin forgiven time and again so I think perpetuity in forgiveness exists. Actually you just can't help yourself in situation where you become slave of your heart.
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Kia PA forums wale Lotay kabhi wapis bhi aate hain? 
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I've seen examples of 'Herjai' bin forgiven time and again so I think perpetuity in forgiveness exists. Actually you just can't help yourself in situation where you become slave of your heart.
Yehi log hain jo bar bar dhoka khate hain aur phir kehte hain:
Bewafaon se wafa karke guzaari hai hayat
main barsta raha veeranon pe badal ki tarah
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Depends on what? Type of Harjai or type of relationship with Harjai?
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Per yeh laa'ilaaj loag hain ..becharay :D
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Koi Humse Bhe Puch Lay :(
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Koi Humse Bhe Puch Lay :(
Kahiye Janab.. Hum hama tan gosh hain.
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^ Ishq kay hathon tabah :p
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Per yeh laa'ilaaj loag hain ..becharay :D
Becharay kiyun? La'ilaaj sahi hai kiyunke apne kiye ka ilaaj shayad Hakeem Luqman ke paas bhi na tha.
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Kahiye Janab.. Hum hama tan gosh hain.
Nhe rehnay day ap :(
^ Ishq kay hathon tabah :p
Tabah o barbaad :p
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Nhe rehnay day ap :(
Tabah o barbaad :p
Tu nay dil mera toda, kahin ka na chhora, Sanam Bewafa. :(
Aap ne us harjai ko maaf kia ya nahin?
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Tu nay dil mera toda, kahin ka na chhora, Sanam Bewafa. :(
Aap ne us harjai ko maaf kia ya nahin?
Jera Zakhm Dilbar Yaar Daway
Zakhm Seh Laye Kurr Layi Da Nahi
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Piyar undhaa hota hai. Uss koh pa lenay kee khawhish mein sub bardashat ker lety hain log.