Do we "Really" Love Allah and the Prophet (saw) ?!?!?

Few moments ago I said to myself that I love Allah (swt) and the Prophet (Saw) but following questions poped up in my mind and I couldn’t answer them, so I thought why not I should ask them from my fellow muslims brothers and sisters.

If we claim to love Allah and the Prophet (saw) THAN :

  1. According to a hadith everyone at the day of judgement would be lifted with those people whom he loved the most in his life. When we love someone very much we want to talk and listen about them most of the times in our lives and we have alot of knowledge about their activities, their age, their favourite things..etc. This makes me worried if on the day of judgement most of us would be lifted with Suhabas (r.a) or the most popular singer, so called hot and cute actors/actresses…etc ???

  2. When we love someone, we can’t tolerate if anyone put a blame on them. Like if a person put a false blame on my sister or mother, I would want to clear the doubt in his mind in a friendly manner with logics and proofs. IF we “Love” Allah (swt) so much than howcome most of us (muslims) are not trying to clear the false blames put by our non-muslim colleagues againts Allah. Like (Ma’azAllah) Jesus is the son of God…etc. Infact we muslims were chosen to introduce ISlam with “Hikmat” to non-muslims. (at least to our level best to the extent which is in our control)

  3. When we love someone or we are impressed by someone, we want to behave like them, talk, walk and dress like them, but why most of us muslims are following more of the western fashion than the “Sunnah” of the Prophet (saw) ?!?!

I have more questions in mind but I think first I would like to request you all to help me in finding the answers to these questions.

JAzakAllah Khair for your time.