do u think its right...

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for a girl to only start wearing hijab after shes married because her in laws want her too?..so she wears a hijab but still wears tight fitted pant and shirts..isnt that so hypociticals and superficial..its like the only point of the hijab is to show ppl that she is muslim bahoo?..her husband isnt even relgious and hes a nikama..she the one that works n earns money and she living with his like 7 borthers..how hypocritical of her in laws to force her to do that when their own son is usleless and awara..

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It is wrong to force anyone to do any act. The best way for a person is to be convinced oneself.The inner force is always long lasting and more powerful than external force.

BUT, I have seen people who were forced to do a good act, but it was the "taseer" (nature) of that good act that had an influence on the heart of that person and later he got convinced to do it himself.

Few people I know whose parents and brothers used to force them to do religious acts (such as hijab) by force. But after tasting the sweetness of those acts in their heart, they wouldn't agree even if now their parents and brothers force them to leave that same religious act (including Hijab)

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^ thats sounds nice n call STP bro but i would not be feelin very great if i was that lardki...u know?..

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Sister, I don't know what you mean by chicka, but if I were put to such a situation (Allah forbid) and am forced to do a good act, then regardless of the feeling of being forced if I myself feel the sweetness of the taste of performing that act, I would go for it not because I was forced but because that act tasted delicious to my heart (insha'Allah by the grace and blessings of Allah)

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sorry mera matlab lardki..but i still dont like the forced thing..even if its supposed to be a good rightful act for soebody else to wear the hijab it doesnt mean i feel the same way or should be obligated to feel the same way..thats like saying...'oh dearry..ull eventually learn to love ur opressors'...roling my eyes now

just because hteyre in-laws it odesnt give them a right to do hakoomaat over bahoo

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It's called "dictatorship"; look it up.

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it is oh so lame but very common my cuz had to do it but she had to wear whole burka she is like doubel masters in ecnomics and had a great job but next day when she came home on waleema she was wearing this hideous burka i almost died because it is stupid either u do it all ur life or u dont what's the point of doing it because some one ask u to so they wont do it if god ask them to but but they would gladly do it for humans plzzzzzzz desi's are so lame

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i hate girls who wear hijab over tight outfits just like syrians and jordaninas do... i wish i could go to each one of them and slap them... wearing a tight extremely tight tank top with high neck below and with quaters and full head cover!!!!! thats just tooooooooo stupid!!!!!!

im completely against those hypocrites... i believe if 1 has to do hijab then do it the right way or dont do it....

waisay b hijab kero ya na kero, insaan ka dil saaf hona chahiye hai under say!!!!!

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I don't think it's right to force anyone to wear hijab - it's their choice. If they want to wear it, it should be because they are ready to and know what it means to wear the hijab - they shouldn't wear it for parents/siblings/friends/mil's etc.. it should be only for Allah (swt).. It wouldn't be so bad if they just suggested she's think about wearing it.. but telling her to go wear it, is not right.

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yes its nt right to force anyne...jst becuz they r forcing her to wear a hijab..doesnt make her all religious or any better person than others....
she got to feel it herself..and if she dnt..she shuldnt wear it...
am a hijaban myself..i mean i cover my head and wears a coat....but dnt do nikab..my inlaws do..and thy dnt like the fact that i dnt do nikab...

i cnt force myslf to do it...jst becuz they wnt me to do it doesnt mean i shuld strt dng it...bhawh whtever

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Agree with ya

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It's wrong to force her.

But if she wants to try, you have to be open-minded regarding the transition time. It is not an easy transition and it is not fair to expect her to be "perfect" immediately.