Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
Uh not wearing a ring doesnt mean the mariage is in trouble? that’s sometimes a preference is just a rpeference, it doesnt mean that there’s something wrong…if someon chooses to wear a ring, by all means go ahead, but if someone doesnt thats not ur problem. in our culture, theres no one specific thing that signifies marriage, does this mean that every marriage in our culture has a probleM??
Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
oh yeah i know i never said it spells trouble...i meant sometimes men dont for the wrong reasons. (not all just some!) a ring technically doenst mean anything its not the end all if u dont wear one...just giving an insight or opinion...
why does everyone get hostile in these posts if someone gives thier own personal opinion....just trying to put other opinions out there.....god some people have no life
Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
I would ask my future hubby...his view on wedding-rings.
Living abroad, its better if you have same understanding/values....
Id be truly disappointed IF he does not wear his ring.
And yes, the allergic feelings some desi men have towards the wedding-ring
makes me think....he is a player or simply not showing respect to his wife.
Whatever approach my future hubby has, Id copy-cat it. Im also excused, because in my field we are not allowed to wear rings, bracelets or watch.......
Id be more in peace and feel apprecited if he cared to wear it.
The other "not wearing thingy" makes me feel insecure......
Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
I would like to wear my wedding band but my work do not allow me to wear it all the time so I keep on losing them, every wedding anniversary wife buys a new one for me.
PS: OK that was exaggeration, not every anniversary only three times in nine years.
Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
i've seen married people that never wear a wedding ring, a chinese coworker i work with at the computer lab at the uni never wears a wedding ring along with another man that never wore his wedding ring, i guess it depends on personal perference, is it so difficult to wear a ring everyday of your life?
Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
I'll go right ahead and state the obvious. It is just a symbol, how much meaning you attach to it is down to the individual couple.
I'm not a fan for practical reasons.
Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
I would ask my future hubby...his view on wedding-rings.
Living abroad, its better if you have same understanding/values....
Id be truly disappointed IF he does not wear his ring.
And yes, the allergic feelings some desi men have towards the wedding-ring
makes me think....he is a player or simply not showing respect to his wife.
Whatever approach my future hubby has, Id copy-cat it. Im also excused, because in my field we are not allowed to wear rings, bracelets or watch.......
Id be more in peace and feel apprecited if he cared to wear it.
The other "not wearing thingy" makes me feel insecure......
You know that he can take off his ring and rub concealer on that spot and have fun.
I think it is a very western thing to do just like that whole dress in white marriage in a church thing. I do remember the airport immigration guy asked my brother where his ring was when my bhabi first came here: he doesn't wear it but told the immigration guy that it was packed in the bag to shut him up.
Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
Yes, my husband and I both wear our rings. He never takes his off, but I sometimes feel like taking it off when I am washing dishes, or cooking, or cleaning or something- and I have been known to not wear it for a couple of days b/c I forget to put it back on or it feels like my fingers are selling and it feels uncomfortable on it. However, I always wear it when I am going out.
I agree that in Western countries, it is a sign of marriage so it is more important/ seen as more important to be wearing one. In Paki, it is starting to catch on but not as much. I agree that the gold bangles are probably a sign of a married woman there. I have gold bangles but don't wear them at home b/c I feel they will get dirty with housework more than a wedding ring will. However, I always wear them for a party or wedding.
Re: DO U Married peeplan out there Wear wedding Rings??
so many “he never takes it off” and “she never takes it off” replies in the thread. bhai ager take off ker leya tu kia bomb phat jayee ga
One can wear ring and act all “bachelor” without any problem while someone else who does not have ring can still tell by his conduct that he/she is married.