Re: Do u guys find it wrong?
Ume-Z: per your post above (81 & 82).
In sports bars, you don't have to sit in the bar area. if you sit in the dining room, its not as bad as you are thinking. A lot of people don't smoke. And it doesn't smell bad. same is the case with the other bars too. Ofcourse it depends on what kind of bar it is. I mean, we don't go those gangster bars.
Going with them to bars is not a religious activity. so we can't really compare it with Eid or Christmas.
But as for your question, I always arrange Eid lunch/dinner for my Muslim & non-Muslim friends. They invite me too. so yes, we share the celebration part. but no one has ever forced anyone to do anything in particular.