do u ask or do u take

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ASK??

You mean as in I dont have any cash in my wallet and dont feel like going to the bank sorta thing?

If this is the case...then yes I will ask my husband for cash because one should respect their spouses privacy and should not dig through their wallet/purse. I for one would not like him digging through my purse so I have to give him the same consideration.

other then that...i dont need to ASK for money. I would think that if you are married then what's his is yours right? but I would think twice and discuss with him before making a huge purchase on something.

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I don't ask. I take. I dig through his wallet, bank account, etc and then make a huge purchase without him knowing :)

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Yeah, I would only ask if it's to take money from his wallet coz he might need the cash for something. But if it's withdrawing cash from the joint account, there is no need to ask. why would you ask?? It's not his money. It belongs to both of you!

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i will not give her any money !

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Husbands shd always give their wives something. so that there is no need to ask. my husband hands me house hold expense and my pocket money separately. i never have to ask him for anything extra. but if i do need anything for kids i tell him and he gives me the money. same way if he does some grocery or household shopping i pay him back from household expense. married 21 years.

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If you are taking money out of his wallet - then of course you MUST tell him.

What if he goes out to buy "lunch" - orders food - thinking he has enough cash - and then finds that there is NO CASH!!!

uuuggggg - If I was the hubby I would have to SMACK THE WIFE HARD - for embarrassing me!

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what a silly argument. asking for money makes you dependant. as if you are not dependant from each other in a marriage/relationship. yeh pakistani soch hi siraf ho sakti hai.

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its good to let the poor guy know.

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it would be good to tell the poor chick "get lost, earn your own money"

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I hate when people touch my wallet or cell phone. How would you like your husband sniffing into your purse?

I think a decent approach would be to ask the guy for money, I dont think he would say no. It is a matter of basic courtesy.

then she will just take it :D

exactly!! :)

how rude..poor girl your wife

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There's something that doesn't quite add up with this question...

The wallet has to be present if you want to take money from it. Usually the wallet will be at home IF THE OWNER IS AT HOME. If the owner is at home, WHY SHOULD you take, when you can ask???

Hmmm....???

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earning oneself is nobler.

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^^ and being a homemaker isn't?

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I ask and I take :halo:

a homemaker definitely earns : )

Agree, shouldn't have to be dependent on others for the simple necessities in life.....

or u could just set up some sort of direct debit simple an hassle free...:)

you mean as in debt cards? exactly what i was thinking earlier

i mean I dont get why a girl needs to ask for money...dont they have plastic (credit cards/ debit cards) ?