do traditional professional girls still exist?

[pak2015]

Re: do traditional professional girls still exist?

@Sehrysh

My definition is probably pretty close to your own - a girl who respects cultural and religious boundaries, and while not a perfect practitioner of faith, nevertheless lives by those religious principles and wants the same from members of her family.

I would put money on the fact there are plenty of traditional professional girls within your larger community/social circle - but odds are they are going unnoticed because they were raised within those cultural/moral boundaries and find it awkward to socialize with guys within the community. Parents who raise traditional girls, raise them to not talk to boys or be friends with them or in any way free with them - which is fine, except it inhibits their ability to socialize or get noticed by guys because according to amma and abba, guys shouldn’t be noticing them. They are the ultimate Plain Janes (less in appearance, and more about not being the centre of attention).

Seriously though all the girls in my community are either hijabis or way too modern and liberal for me. Ive experienced the modern girls, wayy too much high maintenence, they’re good as girlfriends but cant imagine spending rest of my life with them I dont care anymore how gorgeous they are. I need to find me a plain jane to marry

In the end I guess I just want a classy and decent wife who has boundaries.