do stupid people..

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@Aisha dubaiwali

I am telling you because i used to be one of those people:smack:

But someone, straightened me out:o

So i can tell you exactly what these kinds of people go through, from personal experiance i will tell you.

My best friend told me something and without thinking or anything i always used to presume that she is angry with me and not on speaking terms with me and write all sorts of poems and sorry notes and god knows what. Then she used to tell me what happened and how without even thinking properly i jumped to conclusions. And whenever i used to ask her why you help me out she is like “if i wont tell you, who will? the zamana is very zalim and you need to straighten yourself to live in it”

She has made me to some extent a very much level headed thinker and i have stopped with all those childish antics of mine and childlike behaviour and thinking.

I can tell you it is definitely very hard for people who are like this plus it is hard for the people they live around. The people around them get annoyed by them and frustrated by them at each possible minute and the person himself/herself does not seem to make any right decision in life. Plus these kinds of people think alot, too much thinking is also bad for a person’s image because it creates misunderstandings and as you said they think without even pausing for even a second and comtemplating on the issue at hand. They jump to conclusions and then suffer and to rectify their mistake they make even more mistakes.

well done aisha :biggthumb you are so much like me.. even i experienced this, infact as we speak, i m still struggling to think straight, use my brain, not think much and be able to answer ppl appropraitely. I mean before i also didnt understand jokes, i would ask alot of qs, repeat myself but then after marriage i had to change cus i cudnt be all this childish and everything. But i still have a long way to go. I have made alot of mistakes in life and said things(unintentionally) that have been taken very -vely so now i try my best to b “politically correct”… it takes a hell lot of time but some day I will reach there I guess