I remember grwoing up my parents would always say how we dont have any ikhlaq whenever they were mad at us or didn’t do somthing they wanted…and they they would says how everyone there had more ikhlaq and respect for their parents in pakistan…like ‘kabhi jawab nahi lagate’ and how they are more sensitive towards their parents problems and stuff.
how true is that?
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Its nothing about being bahir kay bachay ya Pakistan kay bachay, decency isn't where you were born its how you are as a person
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your parents lied to you..to make you feel bad.....actually pakistani born kids are the worst kind....
so don't ever feel guilty over that..
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They do, but i am not sure if its more out of respect or complusion.
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Its nothing about being bahir kay bachay ya Pakistan kay bachay, decency isn't where you were born its how you are as a person
No, your statement is not true. Respect and etiquette is not geographical thing which you find in once place but not in another place.
your parents lied to you..to make you feel bad.....actually pakistani born kids are the worst kind.... so don't ever feel guilty over that..
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I remember grwoing up my parents would always say how we dont have any ikhlaq whenever they were mad at us or didn't do somthing they wanted....and they they would says how everyone there had more ikhlaq and respect for their parents in pakistan...like 'kabhi jawab nahi lagate' and how they are more sensitive towards their parents problems and stuff.
how true is that?
Well it's the parents fault for leaving Pakistan.
Re: do pakistani born kids have more 'iklaq' with their parents?
I remember grwoing up my parents would always say how we dont have any ikhlaq whenever they were mad at us or didn't do somthing they wanted....and they they would says how everyone there had more ikhlaq and respect for their parents in pakistan...like 'kabhi jawab nahi lagate' and how they are more sensitive towards their parents problems and stuff.
how true is that?
It depends on the upbringing which makes one tameezdaar/ikhlaaq wala/wali whereever u are living.
in my relatives (in pakistan) most of the kids are ikhlaaq wale with few exceptions. the relatives i have abroad-again most of them are ikhlaaq wale with few exceptions.
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Ikhlaq of children or for that matter of adults depends on their upbringing rather than the place where they were brought up. Some US born and bred children respect their elders and parents more than some of the children bred in Pakistan. The ikhlaq is transfered to children from the parents but after a particular stage, they start getting influenced from their friends and other people around which can sometimes be contradictory to what their parents have taught them, thus making parents question the ikhlaq of their children and wonder how their children could learn such bad ikhlaq. Parents sometimes give examples of other children just to give us some sharam 
but they don’t necessarily know the true ikhlaq of children bred in Pakistan and when we try to make them aware of the ‘true ikhlaq’ of our cousins bred in Pakistan (as most of the times we know the hidden truths), our parents say, ‘phir jawab de rahay ho’ :sid: