Re: Do not marry the one you love…
The situation you describe is before marriage.
Before marriage there is not a single parameter one can say for sure that other person really ‘loves’ that person.
Not a single parameter!
No matter how long two individuals spend time with each other ‘independantly’, the marriage which culminates after this relationship still can fail.
That is why short term pre-marital relation (without being physical) AFTER some basic matching process is still proven long lasting.