Re: Do most pakistani men prefer urdu or punjabi speaking wives
Nope, none at all. Live in the west and my family from both sides are bilingual - english and punjabi speakers so never needed to learn the language. Sad scenarios is that most other Pakistanis living here have parents/family who, despite living here many years, still don’t know how to speak english so its might be a requirement of many potential spouses that future wife speaks punjabi or urdu