Do most ABCDs go 'back home' for marriage?

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Re: Do most ABCDs go ‘back home’ for marriage?

@Mad_Hatter

Heh, this is weird. Apart from the population on GS, most of the asians around me tend to be finding their own wifey/hubbies from the UK. I would assume it’s because their parents give them more freedom to find someone themselves rather than jetting off to Pakistan with them

The few marriages I do know where the girls (and it’s usually a girl) has married from Pakistan, the marriages have lasted but they have not really been happy ones.

Even my parents are quite against me and my sisters marrying someone from Pakistan, unless it’s someone from the family, and even then they’d probly not prefer it cos they’d want someone who can support themselves financially/career-wise - and that tends to be the mentality of a lot of parents i know these days.

yes this is what i see around me too!