“If she talks/texts/dates/sleeps with me, then she can do it with anyone (and therefore not worthy of respect).”
Is that kind of thinking still alive and kickin?
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yes
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Backward thinking
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Well by GS standards I am medieval... however I cant help but unleash the Hawk among the pidgeons on this one and state that both the man and the woman in such relationships are acting wrongly... so in my view neither is worthy of respect. :)
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What do you mean by 'still think'? 'even after the Jasmine Revolution'?
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so going by that thinking a man has to see a woman as only his or else his respect for her goes down leading to him judging her negatively in every aspect of life
but i wonder how those men think that are one out of 3 husbands of a woman in some parts of the world. their thinking must be totally different since childhood.
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What do you mean by 'still think'? 'even after the Jasmine Revolution'?
What's the jasmine revolution?
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yeah we are desi.
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"If she talks/texts/dates/sleeps with me, then she can do it with anyone (and therefore not worthy of respect)."
Is that kind of thinking still alive and kickin?
Yes and those guys have low self esteem, they think they are not 'special' enough for the girl to only want to sleep/text/talk with them.
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What's the jasmine revolution?
That helped depose a president and increased demand for diapers in Washington. Google it :P
Many men thought like like what you mentioned and still think like this. I am just wondering why is there a 'STILL' in the question :P
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"If she talks/texts/dates/sleeps with me, then she can do it with anyone (and therefore not worthy of respect)."
lol so the prerogative is that he talks/texts/dates/sleeps with her too, then 'he' can do it with anyone too (and therefore he himself is not worthy of respect' by his own standards...
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Even girls think like this as well. :)
"If he talks/texts/dates/sleeps with me, then he can do it with anyone (and therefore not worthy of respect)."
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Some things can never change.
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I am confused. The question is missing some information. I do understand that you are not talking about a Muslim society, but then which society are you talking about ? because even people related to other religions tell me that this isn't normal in their faith also.
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Crawl out of your cave crime master, this happens in muslim society too.
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Its a two way traffic.
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If we can't remove a sin from our society, isn't it better to at least consider it to be a sin (which is the lowest level of Imaan) instead of making it sound like a normal act in our discussions ? Just asking, please forgive me if anyone feels bad about this comment. I myself am the dirtiest person alive today in terms of deeds, but I sincerely feel that "not thinking of a sin to be a sin" prevents ones heart from repenting and seeking Allah's forgiveness.
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Wise words my friend I salute your courage 
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"If she talks/texts/dates/sleeps with me, then she can do it with anyone (and therefore not worthy of respect)."
Is that kind of thinking still alive and kickin?
At least for the dates and sleeps part, yes. Not sure if that was ever the case with talking/texting though.
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yes yes yes