I was thinking about an article I read here few weeks back…since then I am making an effort to not get angry in front of my husband and I think things are going pretty well between us since then. hmmm
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Good for you. Seems like you figured out the answer.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Lot of women need to read that article.
Well noone likes an angry person who is angry for no reason all the time.
Unless you're The Hulk. Specifically the Mark Ruffalo Hulk from The Avengers. Then it's hot.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
These finest of finest didn't. Who cares if rest of the men do or not eh?
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) : Angst destroys the piety of a person as vinegar does destroy good honey
Hazrat Ali (RA): Keep away from anger because it starts with rage and ends in remorse.
Hazrat Ali (RA): Anger is a bad companion which exposes the failings of a person. It brings him closer to evil and takes him away from good
Hazrat Ali (RA): Beware of anger lest it dominates you and becomes a habit
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Men are not well-equipped to handle a harsh, angry women. It makes them feel inferior, speechless, and they don't like the drama. This is the reason why my past ristha talks with the guy I liked didn't work out. haha Some have no tolerance for it. It's good to be kind, but we all have different emotions, so to be angry and to show it is inevitable.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
^ No one like to see an angry person 24X7 on their face be it men or women and to top it if its for no reason then ![]()
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Could you please share a link the article?
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Once in a while is okay, but some men don't even like to see THAT before marriage. haha The idea is that if a woman can be so harsh and angry (even if its just once or twice) before marriage, the likelihood of that showing up after marriage is pretty high. And guys sometimes don't want to take that risk. That's what I learned.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Once in a while is okay, but some men don't even like to see THAT before marriage. haha The idea is that if a woman can be so harsh and angry (even if its just once or twice) before marriage, the likelihood of that showing up after marriage is pretty high. And guys sometimes don't want to take that risk. That's what I learned.
You have been among wrong guys is what I can say and secondly dynamics of relationship before marriage is different than dynamics of husband-wife relationship. Both have to put up with lop of crap from other to keep the relationship going.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
They lie. Everyone loves Angry Birds!
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
This is one article: Why men hate angry women - Los Angeles Love and marriage | Examiner.com
Haha yeah I go for picky guys with high criteria and standards. But that’s because of my parents. It’s hard to please them. -_- Sometimes the nicer and more down to earth guys are the ones with the less-education and softer hearts, but my parents have requirements they need in a son-in-law. Also considering I’m an over-achiever myself (with a doctorate and definite over-qualifications in education in my studies here in Canada), it makes sense for my future-hubby to be similar.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
if only ...
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Im really starting to like you. Now I need you to get angry so I can assess how much I like you.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Haha Milly! The irony is that I really don't get angry that often. But when I do, I can really be harsh and dominating. That's why, for the guys that I've been into, their pride and ego takes over. They feel a lack of self-worth and dislike it. I learned my lesson. Let that side come out of me AFTER marriage. :P
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Anger leads to hate; hate leads to suffering.
-Yoda
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Anger leads to hate; hate leads to suffering.
-Yoda
That is the path to the dark side, well done my young padawan
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
so you didn't know that before? dislike angry woman more than an ugly one.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
Men can't stand yelling, angry woman unless its mom.
Re: Do men really dislike angry women?
^ It's not that they love their mom's yelling, they just learn to tune out.