Re: Do men feel the need to have a family?
yeh this sense is more in women that they dream about having family and kids n hubby plus try to keep their men happy by being tolerant and patient... but men , really have disappointed me. I heard from a man saying, that what a wife can give him that he doesnt have already? He can keep a maid for cooking, dusting and washing or can do them himself. If a person thinks in this way for a woman or a wife , i wonder if he would be ever able to give her the place and position in his house n heart that she deserves being his wife. I say same question a woman can ask too that what a man can give her that she doesnt have or cannot have without marrying him. coz if it is only that he provides her with do waqat ki rotee then she can produce that for herself very easily. Coz now days majority of Women are working and earning. earning even more than men sometimes.
I feel men cannot LOVE. No matter how much you take care of him and how much you obey him... how much you sacrifice and how much you absorb every bitter word that is said towards you. You will only be insulted and off and on proved to be an inferior creature. He wont ever acknowledge you services, and all that u have been doing for him, coz he has not learnt to be obliged. Expectations are higher from a woman but he himself is a loser thru out whenever the woman has expected anything from him.
i know i know i m angry.... but what i said is 100% truth. I am not talking about any one particular person, have a lots of examples around me. All are Nashukray and proud.
I love gals but lately I feel strongly that I dont want to have daughters coz the treatment i see for them is unbearable for me.
Oh yes the bottom line is that now days Man do not need a Woman , and woman is a fool that she keeps on wishing to have a man beside her. Idiot she is ..no doubt.