There is pressure, my bro is not married and is under constant pressure, to a point he has almost rebelled against it that he will marry when he feels like it and wo he wants to so no intriductions, no discussions, no pointing girls at any event type of deal.
There is pressure, but I think it starts later and intensifies later than for women.
Men too are under a lot of pressure to marry, specially when they get bit old i mean like in 30's, i have a male relative who has not married and most likely will never marry, and i can tell you that few years ago, whenever he was around all people talked to him was that why he is not marrying, now i guess everyone has given up on him.
But i think there is a difference, if a female does not marry, people say, like, may be she is too proud/arrogant or she is unable to9 find a good husband.
While in case of males, people say why he does nto marry, taking for granted that he will find a wife if he wished.
There is pressure once guy is well set (have good job etc) or sometime even when he is not well set. Famous sentence that parents often tell to those guys is "aaney wali aapna naseeb lai ker aatee hai".
In most lenient term you can say that we normally get “reminded” buy parents (and others) every now and then that its about time and we should get married!
if only a man knew his true feelings, they could have a chance of their life
in securing their happiness.
may men and women, never have to regret this regret that they suffer after losing their loved one due to conflict and utter misunderstanding or frustration, emotional neutrility or dryness, assumptions, posioning, never engulf them.
it is never too late to amend.
dushwari
amen.