do you think that if i am having a baby i have to stay at home with my baby? if we can afford it is it best for him or her that i stay at home and look after the baby? and for how long? 1-2 years? until they are in school? but i've heard that teenagers need a lot of time too. so it is better to be home when they are younger or older? or should i be ready to give up my career now for a family?
I am pregnant and my hubby has already told me that he does not want me to work and look after our daughter fulltime.
I have my mum, SIL and Sis to look after my daughter but he thinks i need to give my time to her. and she would need me more than others. and i agree with him.
I want to be home when kids come back from school and i find it very distressing for those kids whose parents are at work and after school they have to go to after school care or home alone.