Do I have a say or not?

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Re: Do I have a say or not?

@StrangeOne

Choose your battles wisely. Will this person’s presence completely destroy your entire walima? Honestly it could if you choose to or you could ignore the person and be happy about the gazillion other people you do like. Yes, it’s something you should remember for future reference because your sil has proven to be unreliable but if you’ve made your point once and have been ignored you can’t force an adult to do what you want.

I get what you’re saying but you don’t understand how much I dislike this girl. The hatred I have for her is indescribable and everyone is well aware of that. Why then would you go ahead and invite her anyway? Yes she’s unreliable but at the end of the day, it is my wedding and if I don’t want her there then she needs to understand that. She’s not exactly an adult so I don’t know how to approach her without us arguing.