do husbands worry

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that after marriage, they need to stay fit & look good for themselves & for their wives?

any married couple at GS would like to share this?

thanks,

dushi

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(desi)Wives prefer their husbands to go (a little bit ) out of shape after few years of marraige.

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i think they do… i think it bothers them that they cant fit into their wedding suits haha..

i like my hubby with a bit of weight… it makes me feel better about myself :snooty:

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Good girls like Big guys.

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I don't think so they do and i like my hubby to be fat coz right now i am:CareBear:

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Women let go of themselves why can't men?

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I could never fathom that women want their husbands to be fat, just coz it makes them feels better. This is disgustuing.

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I guess fit women want their husbands to be fit and fat ones want their husbands to be fat.

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...not ALL women "let themselves go"....

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I think most people (desi or not) who give importance to health and fitness will carry it on even after marriage. Health is a personal issue and you don't stay fit just to please your partner.

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My hubby gained a little weight after shadi and was very self conscious. He started dieting and exercising, but to be honest he was thinning away in his diet process. I have to keep reminding him to eat well, and I really don't care. I wouldnt want him to have rapid weight gain though, its not good for his health.

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My hubby is more into fitness than me. We were both memebers at a fitness center. I dropped due to pregnancy and he goes there religously.

It makes me proud that he is so concerned about hsi health fitness which makes me want to put some effort into my health plan as well.

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^Ditto!

I can safely say that my hubby eats healthy food whereas I still get away with junk food thus of course he is more fit than I can ever be.. he religiously goes to the gym, swimming etc. I myself have found myself more concerned about my fitness after shadi since if i expect my husabdn to be fit then I should do the same. At this moment, as a couple, we are fit fat (him being fit and me being the fat one)!!!:hinna:

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As a general comment....has anyone observed couples....who have ben married for years...at least 15-20 ...they start morphisizing into each others look a likes......really sehat wise or otherwise...to me even their faces start looking aalike.....my own logic behind it is....they live in same circumstances...same food....etc.....its just funny ...:)

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^^and they start to immitate their spouses facial expressions unconsciously which results in spouses looking like each other.

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yeah, yeah, sometimes i wonder why soem couples look like brither and sister instead of husband&wife.

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I was going to write that...but opted out of it.....:) ...my thoughts exactly.....

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this is so true^

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Hum, I have no intentions to become fat after I get married, neither I am gonna let my wife become fat even an inch or a pound. I know jogging is best to burn fat and I love jogging.

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Ppl said me and my fiance look alike (and we’re NOT related) :teary2: So I guess we got a head start :sara:

5-10 lbs after marriage/kids, is no big deal i guess, its the 30-50-100 lbs that does make a difference :smack: I dont think anyone wants their spouse or themselves to gain 100 lbs but i think at some point they just stop caring, they get depresssed or busy wiht life, esp in the case of women, they’re taking care of kids, or working or running a household, and they dun have time or energy to take care of themselves…