Re: Do goras lead more care free lives, compared to us desis?
I think in the END - if you have lived in western countries you TURN in a gora's life style.
First generation Desi parents abroad, are more conservative. As the next generation raises their kids and goes on to 3rd and 4th generation - then BELIEVE ME - there is no difference in the "new cultural" thinking of desi either. They have easily welcomed the gora people's lifestyle and are very much comfortable with it.
Now the question about who lives more carefree lives? I say Pakistani men live JUST as CAREFREE lives as the gora's. It's only the girls that are expected to be conservative.
So to answer your question - OVERALL - only girls don't live carefree lives... nothing to do with gora and desis.