hard to accept, it is true.
does it happen all the time, in diffeent life events - at work, within one’s family and with a personal relationship?
if it does, how should you deal with it?
in what ways?
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I lost my faith cuz of this.......
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mauli,
thanks for input.
faith is not worth losing on 'do good, get bad' experiences. i hear what you are saying, though.
unfortunately, those who cause that are unaware of how much sadness and how much anguish they leave behind themselves.
being positive, still makes more sense.
ultimately everyone will realize who is at a loss.
& who stood by patiently or stepped away quietly.
those who benefit and then drop or betray are most troubled with confused minds.
hopefully, people will begin to realize that some time soon, they will have to change themselves and not be inconsiderate.
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no good deed goes unpunished? - I think its bull****.
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mauli,
faith is not worth losing on this. i hear what you are saying. unfortunately, those who cause that are unaware of how much sadness and how much anguish they leave behind themselves.
being positive, still makes more sense.
ultimately everyone will realize who is at a loss. & how stood by patiently or stepped away quietly.
I'm not trying to offend u....but even u know that *
*its way easy to say......."have a positive attitude towards life and everything will be alrite".....
But its way harder to put in practical use.
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i do understand.
best,
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You just deal with it.
I always try to look at the good that happened and is happening and also like to think that there are people in worst situation than I am so that kinda helps but anger, crying can never stop. When you are alone, you can't help it but think about such events and issues in your life which over shadow everything else and thats when you breakdown again and again and again.
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hard to accept, it is true.
does it happen all the time, in diffeent life events - at work, within one's family and with a personal relationship?
if it does, how should you deal with it? in what ways?
There are two aspects:
1) You do good on to someone, because you expect something in return.
2) You do good to get reward from the Almighty.
- You do good without expecting a reward back.
There are little chances of getting hurt in the 2nd case. The first case is most common case we usually go through and it hits back at us because our intentions were not to give but to get.
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There are two aspects:
1) You do good on to someone, because you expect something in return. 2) You do good to get reward from the Almighty. - You do good without expecting a reward back.
There are little chances of getting hurt in the 2nd case. The first case is most common case we usually go through and it hits back at us because our intentions were not to give but to get.
give us an insight on the 3rd scenario
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What 3rd scenario?
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[quote="WitchDr, post:30, topic:157411"]
You do good without expecting a reward back
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^^ there
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witchdr
it is not about rewards.
it is about the disappointing behavior, that when you tried to help, it made the other person, wrongfully over judge you and think of you as a threat.
There are two aspects:
1) You do good on to someone, because you expect something in return. 2) You do good to get reward from the Almighty. - You do good without expecting a reward back.
There are little chances of getting hurt in the 2nd case. The first case is most common case we usually go through and it hits back at us because our intentions were not to give but to get.
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give us an insight on the 3rd scenario
It is not the 3rd one. It is an off-shoot of the 2nd one (let me call it 2a). Some people may not be religious enough to consider no. 2 but still humane enough to go by 2a.
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witchdr
it is not about rewards. it is about the disappointing behavior, that when you tried to help, it made the other person, wrongfully over judge you and think of you as a threat.
Dush, there must have been a reward which one was expecting. Did the other person ask for help? To see someone as a threat, something must have gone wrong somewhere.
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*LOL…i get it now…
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WitchDr...
Nice post...the level of disappointment is dependent on your expectation...