why does it always happen ? why freakin guys back stab eachother just for a girl ? i know i love women too but to me friendship/frienz are set to be my priority .. girls come in life and go but REAL FRIENDS ARE FOUND RARELY !!!
Its the 3rd time i was blinded off by my friends. And the its always abt some girl .. always always always !!! WHYYYYYYYYYYY >? why do most desi ppl tend to back stab you ? why they put behind friendships for a girl ???
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cause he wont be in your arms at night :D
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man screw you .. keep ur bs in ur pants i dont want none on this thread !
im darn serious !
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I agree that real friends are rare, and i’ve seen girls do this over guys too…i think sometimes it may be just that they weren’t as good a friend as u thought in the first place in which case it’s good u finally see their true colours…but maybe it’s about jelousy?? when i first met my fiance, ppl (desis) where always trying to cause trouble btwn us, including our so-called “friends”…in the middle we broke up for a few months and only then did i realise these ppl weren’t our friends, cos a couple of the guy friends started asking me out and i was so angry about that cos, hello? u r supposed to be my friends and also, friends to him (my fiance)!!..so we finally concluded that they were jealous all along, some of our “real” friends had even pointed out to us earlier that these guys were trying to break us up, but *sigh *learned the hard way…hmmm, these days it’s hard to tell who’s really ur friend, and who’s trying to take advantage of u…
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you and your friends fighting over a blow up doll again?
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^ yes so hide ur dolls b4 we rug em off !
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exactly man .. dont u just hate it .. i mean imagine stepping in my shoes .. ive kept this guys secrets for like ever .. there is a whole list of bukwaas no-body but me knew abt him .. wat if u were me ? wont u just bust him by telling it around ? i so want to but man .. just eff him .. i guess he is just not worth-it and over all that he still dont even admit his fault.
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Im one of them ... who prefer .... good friendz (could b boy or gal) over galz ...
Bomb ... there r many guyz out there as they got chance .. they will back stab u ... 4 that keep ur friendlist upto 2-3 .... i only keep one friend ... trusted one
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I do hate it, and yea especially when they don’t think they’ve done anything wrong or can’t own their mistakes …but wot can u do? Forgive and move on, obviously he wasn’t worth it…this stuff can make u really paranoid unfortunately if u think about it too much i guess…for eg) when trying to make new friends…i mean, i suppose wot i do now is not to invest so much (secrets, feelings, history, emotions etc.) in the start of a new friendship and just talk about general stuff…maybe if after a year or something if we’re still cool with each other, then i wud allow myself to get closer…:(sometimes, it hurts more when u fight and have arguments or fallouts with friends then with other relationships…i think with time the hurt slowly fades away and u have to move on, that’s just life yea…
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Bomb, its all about survival of the fittest my friend. If you want a girl you gotta go out and fight for her. Both guys and girls will put other competition down as they battle for that mate. But if its a 'friend' stabbing you in the back over a girl, he can't be that good friends can he? Maybe you should make your feelings known to him and the way you've stood by him in the past. And put him on the hotspot by asking him directly about the gossip hes spread about you. Maybe the embarassment will knock some sense into his head before he does that again.
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my friend often leave me when they see a guy coming near to me. ;(
this way i find out how many of them really care for me.
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**Hahah .. 
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so this is not the first time that has happened… and you still call them your friends??? 
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yea hopefully it dont either .. trust me it sux man !
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hell man ! u said it darn rite .. so true indeed but i rather stay a mile away bieng a compatitent.
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im with your friend. to save my friends the emotional trauma of finding out how insignificant they are I always make it clear to them that I will always choose a girl's good graces over all of them put together.
one must be communicative about these things, otherwise it leads to emotional threads like this.
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hahaha..she’s right..screw the friend..friends tou bantay hee rahein gey..
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I love my friends but I would deff put my man above him. They might make me laugh and i have fun with em, but uhm some things u can’t do with ur buddies