seeing so many divorces around, good women and men – young people our age group, who are capable of happy marriages, are damn scared of divorces.
that personal sense of confidence in a developing new relationship only has to come from the trust that a couple has between themselves,
religion has clearly said that divorcing is one disturbing act that is lawful but really must be avoided at all costs.
it must be also seen clearly that when domestic violence and torture takes place, and the woman and the man are a threat to each other, they should separate for good.
consultative intermediations can work, so long as both sides are willing to met and talk to save their marriage, especially to have a proper family life, if they got kids.
however, in male dominated and politically disgusting cultural settings, where the target board is women blaming the victim.
absolutely unjust cultural traditions of holding women disadvantaged or treating men as male goats to be married here or married there, obnoxious familial interferences, selfish motives of the men or women, or insensitivity are all huge factors that can totally destroy the marriage and lead it to a horrible divorce situation.
so, given all this, what can young generation of people who are planning to marry, take a lesson from all this, and make a promise to themselves and each other as a couple, that they wont let interactions become so difficult that separating and divorcing is the ultimate ending of the relationship.
any thoughts on this?
dushwari
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