^ I mentioned this example before also just writing it again for you Reha.
One of my relative who is in his mid 30's now fell in love & got married with a divorced woman who also had a child from previous marriage. His family was against the decision offcourse. But he was so determined and he married her. I have met her a couple of times only but she is a gem of a person. Very polite & very kind. She took care of his bed ridden mother . The guy was working at a very low income job. But now he is settled in abroad with his wife & her child & they now even have a child of their own.
The key is love for each other & willingness to make the marriage work. If he/she loves you she/he will try to understand you. Simply, insaaniyat is what you need to understand someone's feelings.
may i ask how come she didn't go one sooner? Cuz it's hard to spent life alone for 10 years. Why with a man who has been divorced twice? Cuz personally i would think about 10000 times b4 i go for one mainly b/c if he couldn't keep his marriage together twice, chance he might not care third time.
u have to ignore some things when u r divorced with a child and when u r over 35...she had to take risk and then u have to trust the people..aise hee log hotay hain her jaga and u have to trust them...but see she is happy now and much more happier than before...
marriage , re-marriage and re-re-marriage all happens by kismat / naseeb.
yup, even divorce happens by naseeb
You don't need to lower your expectations , mila ga to wohi jo apkay naseeb main hai and it can be better than the previous one only if Allah wants it.
Why should someone lower their standards??? b'coz of society?? Are you any less of a person than before, are you any less educated now, any less civilized, mannered just coz you are divorced??
What if the divorce happened by no fault of your own...so now you'll marry any "rah chalta banda" just 'coz people pressurize you to??
^ I believe that it's a azmaish from Allah.
yeah divorce is truly an azmaish....but not in the eyes of the society.