divorced women

[neha]

@lahori99

hi, i have a question for all divorced women (if there are any).
How hard is (was) to get re-married? (esp if you are woman)
Is it easier to re-marry here or back home?
did you lower expectations the second time? (if u havn’t been married again, would you lower your expectations) for ex, if you are doctor and went for a doctor the first, would you still only consider doctor? Pretty much i am asking is whatever expectations you had the first time: education, social status, looks, personality etc. would you still have (had) the same expectations the second time or is it wise to lower them.
Plz share your opinions/experience you went thr or someone you personally know. Oh even you are not divorced, i would like to hear ur opinion, if you have any.

I know someone who is divorced and recently i heard that person is thinking about re-marrying.

u have to lower the expectations the second time coz of the society’s pressure..they would be like"aik tou pehle hee talaak ho chukki hai, upper se nakhray nahi khatam ho ray"…or stupid things like that…

and then what happens is that girl or girl’s parents are in the hurry to have her marriage again and in that hurry they would choose whatever rishta accepts their daughter who is just OKAY even…