I know many people would get surprised to see the details of the thread but kindly read this in a GENERAL perspective that usually our society possess.
**The Situation:
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A girl, who got divorce from her husband
Or a girl whose husband has died.
In such cases, is that girl supposed to join a wedding party or a gathering with full make-up on her face and fancy clothes? What if the people in the gathering see this as an awkward thing that a girl who doesn’t have her husband and she has gone through a tough phase of her life, is looking like nothing has happened to her?
I mean don’t get amazed but people in our society DO have such mentality. What a girl should do in such situation? I mean should she ignore all the sarcastic views or should she keep herself simple and do not let other people think that she is looking OVER or something?
Are we still living in the stone age? Live to please no one else but God first and foremost and then yourself. Who needs the approval of such pathetic backward jahils anyway? I would verbally abuse the hell out of anyone before they could even blink if they ever came at me with that kind of nonsense.
In both cases if her Idadt is done........ then as far as i know Islam does not restrict liveliness of a life on a woman.
She should dress up and put makeup on her and enjoy the wedding or any other occasion. She should not worry about those paindu aunties at all because they don't know better, its okay their brains never expanded to gain some knowledge or awareness of religion etc...
ppls are so judgemental abt others,they're intrested in others lives rather then foucas on their homes/family wich it self a haywire....one who's suffered such inccidect should live her life with full confidence ,courage,decency....make herself strong that these kindathings won't matter to her....ppl will talk for a while but wen they see that one is not taking it on her head then they will leave her alone.........
