Re: Divorced Parents; Children's Choice or Fate ?
^ I agree, but not totally with the following ;
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I think, if it is going to be a bitter divorce, with custody and alimony battles, then yeah the kids will be messed up on some emotianal level.
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You see, Allah (swt) doesn't put a person in a situation beyond his/her endurance. Though I know it would be difficult to go through a situation like this, but the child should learn to always look at the positive side of life.
If ever you are put in a situation more difficult than other people than it means Allah has also blessed you with extraordinary strength to survive that test otherwise Allah would have never put you in that test of life.